14/10/2025
S*xual Wellness
How to Ask for More S*x with Your Partner
Hello again, dear friend Anonymous. Welcome back to our s*x talk column where readers submit questions, and we do our research and then craft a story to answer as many as we can. We recently tapped Liz Goldwyn—author, filmmaker, and the founder of The S*x Ed, an educational platform and podcast dedicated to s*x, health, and consciousness in the digital age—to provide her expert insight on a handful of the steamiest submissions (like blow job tips and the lowdown on Ta***ic s*x). Today we’re diving into communicating your intimate needs.
How do I ask for more s*x with my partner?
“Communicate, communicate, communicate! Unfortunately, we are not blessed with the power of telepathy, no matter how connected we can be with our partners. And, unless something out of a comic book happens, we won’t gain the ability to read minds anytime soon. So the only way to ask for more s*x with your partner is to do just that—ask! They might not know that you want more, or perhaps something is going on (emotionally, physically, hormonal, mood stabilizer, SSRIs, etc.) that is preoccupying them or lowering their libido. The best way to get on the same page is to talk about it.
