18/06/2023
THE #1 REASON FOR DIVORCE..
More than 50% of marriages end disastrously.
And the reason is simple.
There are thousands of expectations before getting married—and most of them are never communicated.
When it comes to marriage, you must be able to communicate your needs for the rest of your life.
Talk about everything with your spouse. Make sure you both know what to expect about..
- Your wedding
- Your friends and family
- Your current finances
- Your desired lifestyle
- Your faith in God
- Your romantic needs
- Your sexual needs
- Your past relationships
- Your dietary preferences
- Your plans for raising a family
- Your talents and abilities
- Your desired room temperature
- Your philosophy on life
- Your overall life history
And so much more!
If these needs aren’t communicated, then it will lead to arguments.
However, arguments are a good way to clear things up.
You can have long conversations on the phone, through text, emails, and personal visits.
But if these arguments aren’t solved, then they become strife.
If the strife builds up, then it’s becomes difficult to move forward because of the accumulation of so many problems.
And if it’s too difficult to solve these problems, then the arguments become breakdowns.
When most couples breakdown, they either FIGHT for their love or FLY away to avoid further engagement with their partners.
Now, if enough breakdowns exists through neglecting to solve the problems (ignoring the issues altogether for an extended period of time) or abuse (usually through major frustrations, verbal, physical, emotional or sexual abuse), then it leads to DIVORCE!
And that’s why most marriages fail.
A spouse will only look for a way out if their needs are consistently unaddressed and unfulfilled.
So make sure to communicate early and often.
More importantly, make sure to marry the right partner.
Because God hates divorce.
Even more, He hates bad marriages.
Type TRUE if you agree! 👇🏽
- Daniel Ally
