LC Youth Development Programme

28/04/2024

l was sleeping next to my wife when I got a notification from Facebook. I stood up to check; it was a friend request from a lady. I decided to go through her profile to know who she is. Finally, I found out that it was my old time school mate.

I accepted her friend request and I sent her a massage "Hello" since she was still online. She replied "Hi, I heard you are married with kids" I responded, "Yes". she said, I really love you and I'm willing to do whatever it takes just to be part of your life"

Hmmm, I quickly closed the chat to make sure my wife was sleeping.
I left the bed and sat on the chair that is in my bedroom.

I looked at my wife, she was deeply sleeping after the busy and exhausted day from work and house chores.

As I was still looking at her, something came into my mind. "This woman doesn't deserve to be cheated on, look at how safe and comfortable she's sleeping in our bedroom.

She really trusted me so much that I can't hurt her" I started thinking, " she left her family, her caring mother, her Dad who at all times was providing almost everything she needs and her siblings who always brighten her day and joined me in my one bedroom apartment leaving her dad's mansion.

All these thoughts and more was driving me crazy. Then I asked myself, "how can I do this wickedness to this innocent woman?" So I hurriedly picked up my phone and hit the "BLOCK" button.

I turned to my wife and I walked straight to the bed and cuddled her and she adjusted herself to accommodate me.

I can't afford to loose her trust or make her cry. NEVER!

I was able to do that because I am a "Real" man. Real men don't cheat on their wives. Real men don't make their wives cry. Real men don't make their wives regret Marrying them. Real men value their wives more than any other woman.

Be the "Man" the "Real Man", love your wife.

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23/02/2021

MARRY A MAN THAT HAVE SENSE.
1: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that paying your bride price is not equal to buying you.

2: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that marrying you is not doing you a favour.

3: Marry a man that has sense enough to know that you pose to have cramps and mood swings during your monthly circle, and shouldn't use it against you.

4: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that as a woman you also have a right to say "NO" to s*x at times and if he must have his way he should at least try to make you happy and put you in the mood.

5: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that after childbirth you are posed to have stretch marks, big stomach, sag b***s and not too good shape, and he shouldn't because of that compare you to a sweet 16, your sag b***s or stretch marks is a sign of motherhood. (Although you can work it out and be back to shape which is proper.)

6: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that there are times you are just too tired to cook, and him taking you to the eatery to eat dinner or him fixing the meal that day to save you the stress is not a taboo.

7: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you have a right to voice out your frustration, a right to agree and disagree, a right to air your opinions.

8: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that you deserve to hear "sorry" from him and he's obliged to plead and ask for forgiveness when he errs and not use his headship as a means to escape saying "sorry"

9: Marry a man who has sense enough to know that hitting a lady is a crime against humanity.

10: Marry a man who loves your soul not just your body, marry a man who enjoys talking to you even without touching your body, not someone who cannot talk to you without touching you. 🌹🌷🌹🌷 LADIES SHOULD I INCREASE THE VOLUME?

15/10/2020

*TO BE SUCCESSFUL AND BE PART OF OTHER PEOPLE's SUCCESS, THE FOLLOWING ARE NECESSARY:*

● *BELIEVE*
*while others are doubting.*

● *PLAN*
*while others are playing.*

● *STUDY*
*while others are sleeping.*

● *DECIDE*
*while others are delaying.*

● *PREPARE*
*while others are daydreaming.*

● *BEGIN*
*while others are procrastinating.*

● *WORK*
*while others are wishing.*

● *INVEST*
*While others are wasting.*

● *LISTEN*
*while others are talking*

● *SMILE*
*while others are frowning.*

● *COMMEND*
*while others are criticizing.*

● *PERSIST*
*while others are quitting.*

*BEST REGARDS*

21/07/2020

YOUR COMFORT ZONE

2. Start small
You don’t have to throw your entire routine out the window to step out of your comfort zone. Try taking small steps, like driving a different route to work or even moving your desk to a different location. These can help you to get comfortable with the discomfort that comes from trying something new.

3. Reinterpret your fear
In order to overcome your fear of trying something new, Lombardo recommends re-framing those feelings of fear as feelings of excitement and opportunity. When viewed in this positive light, those butterflies in your stomach will soon be seen as welcoming rather than something that you seek to avoid.

4. Look for a challenge
“Doing something that challenges you gives you a whole different outlook and makes you more receptive to change,” says Lombardo. When you take on something challenging, you experience an endorphin rush and often feel recharged afterwards.

5. Focus on the why
Having a mission statement of why you’re stepping out of your comfort zone can help you overcome the fear of doing it. Lombardo recommends writing out the benefits of doing the activity, such as “to build courage” or “to become more creative.” Looking at the why when you start to get stressed out can help bring down your stress levels and make it easier to accomplish the task.

To be continue.......

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20/07/2020

*People who succeed have momentum. The more they succeed, the more they want to succeed, and the more they find a way to succeed. Similarly, when someone is failing, the tendency is to get on a downward spiral that can even become a self-fulfilling prophecy. AS THE SAYING OPPORTUNITY COMES BUT ONCE..*

*BUT SOME OPPORTUNITIES COME EVERYDAY AND EVEN PRESENTS ITSELF BUT OUT OF THOUSANDS...* *ONLY FEWER THAN 10 GRABS & UTILIZES IT.*

*THE OPPORTUNITY WILL ALWAYS BE PRESENT..* *BUT ONLY THE WISE ONES WILL TALE ADVANTAGE OF THEM.*

*LET GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO SEEK IT*
*CONGRATULATIONS TO ALL*
✔️✔️✔️💯✔️✔️✔️💯✔️✔️✔️✔️💯✔️✔️✔️💯✔️🤑🤑💯💯💯💯💯🤑🤑.

19/07/2020

INSIGHT

15/07/2020

11/07/2020

If You Are A Wife, Stop Doing These Dangerous Things Immediately.
They Can Destroy Your Home.

Many families are crashing, yet, the reasons behind it are not big matters but the result of the accumulation of small things that couples do. These things are sometimes too small to be given attention to. On the contrary, they are ignored. If you are a wife, stop doing these things immediately because the result could be destructive. Don't turn your home into a prison.

1) Stop telling outsiders the secret of your family. Even your parents must not be told what is secret unless you agree with your husband to do so
2) Stop disclosing your husband's weaknesses to anybody.

3) Stop running to your parents or authorities like police to report any wrongs your husband did to you. You aren't a news caster.

4) Stop being rude to your husband by all means. Your marriage should be a model to your children and others around.

5) Desist from holding what you get as your personal belonging. Release it for the family use.

6) Never pretend to be sick in other to deny your husband s*x. This behaviour can ruin your family.

7) Don't leave everything for your husband to do. You are a helper, do the work of a helper.

8) Never siphon your family's resources to your father or mothers house with the name of helping them without the knowledge of your husband.

9) Respect and love your husband by all means. He is not just a husband to you but also a father.

10) Stop running to neighbours to seek for help without the knowledge of your husband. Doing this will tarnish your image and that of your family.

11) Avoid listening to your neighbours who always show you reasons to cheat on your husband.

12) Never for whatever reason raise your voice at your husband or insult him.

29/06/2020

10 Early Signs That Your Partner Will Break Your Heart

1. You’re moving too fast.

New relationships can move at a whirlwind speed — at first you get butterflies in your stomach every time you’re with that new special someone and then you can’t help but fantasize about your future together as a couple. But if you start picturing your future children, pets, and the house you’ll live happily ever after in, slow down immediately.

Why it’s bad: Committing too early, even if your partner seems like “the one,” can put a lot of unnecessary pressure on a new relationship and your girlfriend or boyfriend simply might get scared off. Besides that, moving too fast can cause you to miss all the little things you can enjoy in the beginning of your relationship.

How to fix it: Don’t skip certain relationship steps. They are all necessary in order for you to really get to know each other. Your first night out, first make out session, first argument, first out-of-town trip — enjoy every activity while discovering all the hidden sides of your partner’s personality.