Present Parenting

23/01/2026

I have officially ceased all general Pre-Marital coaching and training. Moving forward. Also, I will only accept consultations with challenged couples who have first completed reading "When Healed Singles Mingle Without Wrinkles."
​I’ve made this a prerequisite because the book is designed to do the heavy lifting. In fact, I suspect that after reading it, most couples will find the answers they were looking for without ever needing a session.

19/10/2025

As a parent, the day you understand the difference between PARENTING and UNCONSCIOUS PROGRAMMING, you'll do better. Expect more.

31/01/2025

https://thecoachremi.blogspot.com/2025/01/early-conversation-of-s*x-and.html

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Erectile Dysfunction and Early Conversations About Sexual Health The conversation around s*x with our children has often been shrouded in fe...

29/01/2025

https://thecoachremi.blogspot.com/2025/01/children-and-gadgets-battle-for.html?m=1

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Thank you.

Children and Gadgets: The Battle for Attention in a Digital Age One of the biggest challenges we face today is attention—or rather, the lack...

06/11/2024

HUMAN, GENDER and EMOTIONS 3

To a large extent, I tried to compress this into very few lines and, I believe it helped us to have a mental shift?

Having dealt with the humanity in us and the issue of gender, let us talk about emotions.

I shared some BASIC knowledge of emotions and I got a lot of reactions.

My profession does not permit us to argue, we only ask questions.

Culture and society has wired us to believe that some emotions are BAD/GOOD and that some are gender bias.

I want to say this with uttermost confidence that, emotions are not good or bad and that they're not gender bias.

We don't have positive or negative emotions.

I am just going to do what I can do here, I won't be able to do much.

Being afraid doesn't make a man less manly.

Being angry is not what makes him a man either.

Fear is not synonymous with women.

Above all, fear and anger are not negative emotions after all, we were told to FEAR God and to also be ANGRY.

These two came as INSTRUCTIONS only one came with a caution.

Your emotion is not an INSTRUCTION, it is an INFORMATION. What you do with it is not the fault of the emotion.

We have to stop attributing certain emotions to gender response.

Nobody is a gossip because she's a woman neither is someone abusive because he's a man.

People do not fight or kill each other because they're angry, they do because they MISUSED an emotion that came to HELP them.

Every emotion you consider as a positive emotion has been responsible for the death of someone at some point, did that make you change it to become a negative emotion?

Finally, people do not misbehave because they have a particular temperament or a particular personality, we must not confuse these.

People behave badly because they're not WELL TRAINED.

People fight or kill others, not because of anger but because they allow their THOUGHTS to overtake their HUMANITY.

Your FEELING is not responsible for your ACTIONS, your THOUGHT is.

Also, what someone did is not responsible for your feelings or emotions, your thoughts, feelings and interpretations are responsible.

So, stop saying someone made you angry.

Take care of your humanity, gender and emotions.

For any clarification, please feel free to reach out.

I am Lawal Oluremi, your Family-Life Coach and Therapist

I believe in you strongly.

27/10/2024

Your children are the FUTURE, anything from the past (human or experience) that can hurt that future, DEAL with it now.
Make that difficult choice!

26/10/2024

25/10/2024

Some opinions may win applause but different views. Especially for those who have attended our Family Therapy Course.