Finesse Elocution and Etiquette Academy

15/03/2026

QUEUE ETIQUETTE
“Do you think we don’t have somewhere to go?”
“Do you think we don’t have anything to do?”
These are common reactions when someone tries to jump a queue.

It is disturbing how some people try to bypass even the shortest lines simply because of impatience.
This same habit contributes to many of the everyday frustrations we see around us —
traffic congestion on our highways, quarrels in banks, and disagreements in business places, just to mention a few.

Queue etiquette is more than standing in line; it is about respect, patience, and consideration for others.

If we learn to be patient and place ourselves in other people’s shoes, our public spaces would be more orderly and peaceful.

Sometimes, good manners simply mean waiting your turn.
— Coach Faith Finesse

08/03/2026

On this International Women’s Day, I am reminded of a powerful truth: you gain more by giving.

When women give—
their time,
their knowledge,
their kindness,
their support to other women—
the world becomes richer.
Giving does not reduce you; it multiplies you.

The more value you pour into others, the more growth, grace, and opportunities return to you.

Today, let us choose to lift, mentor, encourage, and support one another.
Because when women give, women gain — and the world gains too.

Happy International Women’s Day 🌸
— Coach Faith
Finesse

07/03/2026

“I don’t dash things.
I gift."

There’s a difference.
To dash is to throw something at someone casually —
sometimes without value, without thought, without intention.
But to gift?
That is intentional.
That is thoughtful.
That carries honour.

When I give, I don’t throw.
I present.
When I support, I don’t do it carelessly.
I do it with dignity.

Not everything that leaves your hand should look like it escaped your hand.
Some of us were raised to “dash” —
but we’ve matured into people who gift.
Even if it’s small,
let it be meaningful.
Because how you give says a lot about who you are.
— Coach Faith
Finesse ⭐

03/03/2026

WE DON'T EXPANTIATE 😅
That word doesn’t exist in standard English.
What we have is:
✅ Expatiate
To expatiate means to speak or write about something in great detail… to really expand on it.

For example:
• The speaker expatiated on the importance of good diction.
• She expatiated at length about the benefits of etiquette training.

Pronunciation:
/ɪkˈspeɪʃieɪt/
(ik-SPAY-shee-ayt)
So the next time you hear “expantiate,” just know the correct word is expatiate.
Let’s speak with finesse. 💙

02/03/2026

I WANT TO CUT MY HAIR OR I WANT TO HAVE MY HAIR CUT?

Confused about which is right?
Let's run through them together.
The difference is in who is doing the action.

1️⃣ “I want to cut my hair.”
This means you will cut it yourself.
You are the one holding the scissors.
Example:
“I’m tired of this length. I want to cut my hair.”
(You plan to do it personally.)

2️⃣ “I want to have my hair cut.”
This means someone else will cut it for you.
You are arranging for the service.
Example:
“I want to have my hair cut this weekend.”
(You’re going to a salon or barber.)

Simple Breakdown
Cut my hair → I will do it.
Have my hair cut → Someone will do it for me.

The second structure is called the causative form (“have + object + past participle”). It’s often used for services:
I want to have my dress sewn.
I need to have my car washed.
She had her nails done.😊

Hope you got value?

28/02/2026

ADDRESSING THE FEMININE GENDER PROPERLY- Ms, Mrs and Miss

Using proper titles to address women in English depends on marital status, age, context (formal vs. informal), and personal preference. The three most common titles are Ms., Mrs., and Miss, along with the honorific Ma’am.
1. Ms. (Pronounced: Miz - /mɪz/)
Usage: The most versatile title, suitable for any adult woman regardless of marital status. It is the best choice if you are unsure if she is married, or if she has divorced or kept her maiden name. It is considered the female equivalent of "Mr.".
Examples:
"I would like to speak with Ms. Faith."
"Dear Ms. Dickson, thank you for the email."
Tip: It is always capitalized and followed by a period (in American English).

2. Mrs (Pronounced: Miss-iz - /mɪsɪz/)
Usage: Used for a married woman. It is often used if she has taken her husband's surname, though many married women now prefer "Ms.".
Examples:
"Mrs. Smith is my neighbor."
"I am writing to Mrs. Davis."
Tip: It is an abbreviation of "Mistress" but should never be written out that way.
Again, NEVER USE THE TITLE MRS WITH ONLY THE FIRST NAME, ELSE IT WILL BE GOOD AS SAYING THE WOMAN IS MARRIED TO HERSELF.
Example
Mrs Faith ✖️
Mrs David-Dickson ✅
Mrs Faith David-Dickson ✅

3. Miss (Pronounced: Miss - /mɪs/)
Usage: Generally used for young girls, unmarried women, or female students. It is sometimes considered too juvenile for adult women, who may prefer "Ms.".
Examples:
"Miss Emily will be your new teacher."
"Excuse me, miss, you dropped your bag."

Worthy of note:
Ms is pronounced MIZ while miss is pronounced MIS.

WATCH THIS SPACE FOR PROPER PRONUNCIATION GUIDE.
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25/02/2026

17/01/2026

Invalid as an adjective means not valid; not true, correct, acceptable or appropriate.
It is pronounced /ɪnˈvæl.ɪd/ "inVAlid," as stressed on the second syllable.
Example:
This invalid contract cannot be legally enforced.

As a noun, it's pronounced/ˈɪn.və.lɪd/ "INvuhlid," as stressed on the first syllable; while the second takes on a Schwa.
It means a person who is confined to home or bed because of illness, disability or injury; one who is too sick or weak to care for themselves.

Let's know the next word you would love us to pronounce 💕

08/11/2025

I had an amazing time with the lead learners of VENUSTAS academy Port Harcourt, discussing professionalism and etiquette in the teaching profession.

Thanks to the management and staff for being an incredible host.

08/11/2025

Throwback to our mentorship session on Dating and telephone etiquette.
Thank you streams of joy for having me.
Saving this moment right here.