Akaazua Emmanuel Aondongu

17/04/2024

The king has spoken!

HRM Prof. James Iorzua Ortese Ayatse and Ijir Tamen speak on traditional marriage rites in Tiv land.

No one in Tiv land should give you a list to buy items in the name of traditional marriage, that borrowed culture is hereby abolished by Tiv traditional area council
(IJIR TAMEN)

all you need is.
1 - N100,000.00 highest amount and it can be less.

2 - Go with at least three elders
3 - meet with the bride parents and tell them of your marriage intention, let them call their daughter and ask, if she says yes, then you give them N100,000.00 and take your wife home

4 - No more party at bride house, you will only take her and do the celebration at your home

Kwagh ne Doo.

22/08/2023

GAIN WISDOM TODAY

1. *ADULT* has 5 letters,
so does *YOUTH* .

2. *PERMANENT* has 9 letters,
so does *TEMPORARY* .

3. *GOOD* has 4 letters,
so does *EVIL* .

4. *BLACK* has 5 letters,
so does *WHITE* .

5. *CHURCH* has 6 letters,
so does *MOSQUE* .

6. *BIBLE* has 5 letters,
so does *QUR'AN* .

7. *LIFE* has 4 letters,
so does *DEAD* .

8. *HATE* has 4 letters,
so does *LOVE* .

9. *ENEMIES* has 7 letters,
so does *FRIENDS* .

10. *LYING* has 5 letters,
so does *TRUTH* .

11. *HURT* has 4 letters,
so does *HEAL* .

12. *NEGATIVE* has 8 letters,
so does *POSITIVE* .

13. *FAILURE* has 7 letters,
so does *SUCCESS* .

14. *BELOW* has 5 letters,
so does *ABOVE* .

15. *CRY* has 3 letters,
so does *JOY* .

16. *ANGER* has 5 letters,
so does *HAPPY* .

17. *RIGHT* has 5 letters,
so does *WRONG* .

18. *RICH* has 4 letters,
so does *POOR* .

19. *FAIL* has 4 letters,
so does *PASS* .

20. *KNOWLEDGE* has 9 letters,
so does *IGNORANCE* .
Are they all by Coincidence?

This means *LIFE* is like a double edged sword but the choice we make determines our future.
*“I now LOVE THIS ANALOGY"*

- When *GOD* wanted to create *FISH*, he spoke to the *SEA*

- When *GOD* wanted to create *TREES*, he spoke to the *EARTH*.

- But when *GOD* wanted to create *MAN*, he turned to *HIMSELF*.

- So *GOD* said:
*"Let us make man in our image and likeness"*.

Note:
- If you take a *fish* out of the *water*
it will *die*;
And when you remove a *tree* from the *ground*, it also *dies*.

- Similarly, when *man* disconnects from *GOD*, he *dies.*

🔆 *GOD* is our *natural environment*.
We were created to *live in HIS presence.*

- We have to be connected to *Him* because only with *Him* does LIFE exist.

- Let's stay *connected to GOD.*

🔆 Remember that *water* without *fish* is still *water,* but *fish* without water is *nothing* .

🔆The *soil* *without* the *tree* is still *soil,* but the *tree* without soil is *nothing* ...

🔆 *God* *without* *man* is still *God,* but *man* *without GOD* is *nothing*

🔆 If this message reaches you and you share it with others, that is called:
*EVANGELISM*

GOD BLESS YOU 🙏❤️

01/08/2023

NEW MONTH MESSAGE 👌

1. Give, but don't let others take advantage of you.

2. Love, but don’t let anyone manipulate you.

3. If your absence doesn't affect someone, then your presence never truly mattered to them.

4. Listen, but don't forget to express your own thoughts and opinions.

5. Trust someone completely and you'll either gain a lifelong companion or learn never to trust them again.

6. Communication is essential for a relationship, and respect is vital for love. Trust is the foundation that keeps it going.

7. People start wanting to be with you when you find happiness on your own.

8. Being unique is better than striving for perfection.

9. High standards shield you from negative experiences.

10. If someone doesn't show the same enthusiasm to talk to you, it's better to stop talking to avoid hurting yourself further.

11. Hurting someone takes only seconds, but repairing the damage can take years. Treasure those who love you.

MAY YOUR NEW MONTH BE BLESSED 🙏❤️

Saint Eldrich ®️

28/07/2023

*COVER THEM UP INSTEAD OF EXPOSiNG THEM*

After I had cleaned and tidied up my house, my brother phoned me and said, "My wife and I are coming to visit you."

I went to my kitchen to prepare something for them, but I could not find anything available to serve them.

After much thought and search, all I could lay my hands on were a few oranges. Therefore, I made two cups of cold juice immediately.

When my brother and his wife arrived I was shocked to see his mother in-law with them, who came to visit us for the first time.

So I served the two cups of juice to his wife and her mother, and I placed a cup of water in front of my brother, saying, 'I know that you like 7Up.
*(WiSDOM)*

He drank a sip and realized that it was water.

And suddenly his mother in-law said, I am feeling tasty for *7Up.* Please give it to me!

Here I was, baffled and caught up with embarrassment. *(FEAR)*

But my brother saved me by saying to her, 'I will bring you a clean glass from the kitchen.
*(WiSDOM)*

After a while we heard the sound of a glass breaking in the kitchen. He then came back and told his mother in-law, 'Sorry, it fell from my hands and the glass got broken. But no problem, I will go to the shop to get another one.
*(UNDERSTANDiNG)*

His mother in-law refused and said, "There is no need for that. It was not meant for me anyway.
*(UNDERSTANDiNG)*

Eventually when they were going, my brother bid me farewell and placed some money into my hand and said, "Don't forget to clean the kitchen of the 7Up so that ants do not come." And he bid me farewell with a smile and love.
*(PROTECTiON)*

In this way, my brother considered my feelings and concealed my shortcoming.
*(SHiELD)*

*THiS IS SiBLiNG LOVE, AND BLOOD RELATiONSHiP.*

When you are in a position, use it to lift others.

Running anyone down will never make you better!

*How do you treat your*
*SIBLINGS?*
*FRiENDS?*
*FAMILY?*
*COLLEAGUES,
NEIGHBOURS etc.

_Do you cover-up their shame or you expose them?_

_*FOOD FOR THOUGHTS_

The Gospel

28/07/2023

Dear Ladies,
You are dating a married man with kids, you
are the reason his wife sleeps late at night
waiting for him to come home late, you are
the reason his wife cries every night, you are
the reason he does not come home to his
family, you are the reason he does not take
care of his family, you are the reason he
does not eat at home anymore.... Yet
everyday
and night, you kneel down and pray to God to
give you a faithful husband when you are
making another woman's husband
unfaithful...
You pray for a caring and a loving man,
when you have succeeded in diverting the
LOVE and care of another woman's husband.
You pray for a good home
when you are destroying another woman's
home. To me, I know God does not grant
selfish request and
prayers...
Wake up, wise up and say NO to sugar
daddies, although they must come to you but
let your NO be your NO and they will go back
to their wives. Do not be deceived by money
and material things, they are all temporal...
Wise up!!!

26/07/2023

THE S*X YOU MUST NOT HAVE.

1. You must never agree to have s*x with a married man no matter what he promises or professes. Never!

2. Never agree to have s*x with your boss. If the harassment becomes too much, resign and trust God for a better job.

3. If God put people under your care to mentor, it is better you die than to have s*x with them. Never take advantage of God's people no matter what.

4. Don't have s*x with a married woman. If you are getting too much attached via chatting, official or academic rapport, break up the closeness or whatever name you have for it.

5. Never have s*x with your lecturers. S*x for grades or marks is for nonentity. You are not. Never must you be.

6. If you are a marketer, never agree to sleep with a prospective client just to meet your official target. Never!

7. Don't have s*x with your in-laws. If he or she stays with you and you are finding it difficult to resist the pull, let him or her leave. I mean latest tomorrow.

8. Don't have s*x with your neighbour or colleague. A neighbour is a neighbour. A colleague is a colleague. Don't get your life more complicated.

9. Don't have s*x with your platonic friend. If the relationship is no longer platonic, break up the thing.

10. God created s*x to be between male and female. Stay away from having s*x with your same gender. God is against homos*xuality / Lesbianism and Beastialism.

11. Don't have s*x with your close siblings or relatives that God forbid marriage with. In**st is vile.

12. Don't have s*x with your girlfriend. Don't have s*x with your boyfriend. God did not create s*x for such relationships. He created it for MARRIAGE.

The only s*x you should have is with your legally married partner.

God Bless Save Us from sin in all ramifications

Saint Eldrich

The Gospel

18/07/2023

18/07/2023

18/07/2023

MARRIAGE IS GIVE AND TAKE

1. When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband
2. When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband
3. When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances
4. When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting
5. When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend
6. When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mood
7. When a woman is appreciative, she receives unexpected gifts from her husband
8. When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him
9. When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly
10. When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time
11. When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids
12. When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments
13. When a woman is not vulnerable, she is loved by her husband
14. When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves
15. When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband
16. When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the Almighty
17. When a woman is selfless, her husband relies completely on her
18. When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together
Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage.
Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own.

Greetings to all submissive Women

A GOOD WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN HOME

30/03/2023

MEN HAVE PAINS TOO.

A woman said to me, 'It took me years to really know that men cry too. I took my husband for a super human. I see him leave the house everyday and come back providing for us. One day as I have left the house and he was at home, I remembered that I needed to take something along, I turned back and headed home. As I got home, I tried going through the back door which was closer to the window of our room. I heard my husband crying like a baby asking God to help me get a job so I can help him fend for the family. He has never complained to me before but that day, I broke down in tears realizing that my husband has held much of his pains alone"

A young married lady went to her mother and complained that her husband has not always bought things she wanted from him. The mother asked her, 'How many of those things have you bought for yourself?". She stayed quiet and said, 'But he is my husband?". The mother replied her, 'Have you ever found out the things your husband wants you to buy for him?".

Men always try to hide their pains.

A woman was invited to preach at women conference and as she was preaching, she asked all the working class women to stand out. They humbly did. And she asked them, 'When you get your salary, how much do you give to your husband as a seed?". Before your money gets to anywhere else, the priest in your life which is your husband should get something from you. Even if he is a rich man, sow seed in his life. Sometimes, we women don't know that our husbands need something from us".

Men can be financially broke and pretend to have everything.

Most men are married but they have lonely life. Sometimes, ask your husband out. Men are not always busy as women think.

You have to understand that your husband has pains and needs too. Don't judge him by things you want from him. Sometimes, your husband doesn't have things you want.

Men also have emotional needs and problems. Men still cry for love.

28/03/2023

Dayo and Rukayat Studied Engineering at a University in kwara State. They were both Classmates and after Five years of Studying hard, they both graduated. After graduation, Fate took them through different paths of life.

5 Years later, Rukayat after much frustration of securing a job, ended up as a Secretary in a Building firm earning 50,000 Naira monthly.

Meanwhile, Dayo on the other hand, couldn't Secure a Job and ended up a Keke rider, He makes At least 5,000 daily and if he works for only 20 days in a month, He makes 100,000 Naira that month.

One Evening, Rukayat closed from work and was at the bus stop waiting for Keke when Dayo stopped. She hopped in when she discovered the Keke was going her way but little did she know it was Dayo. All through the journey, she was lost in her Phone.

She reached her bus Stop and after alighting, just when she was about paying, she took a look at the rider and their eyes met, wow! They were both happy.

"Is this you?" they both asked themselves simultaneously as if they planned it. Rukayat gave him money but Dayo insisted she keep it. He was happy to see her and for old time sake, he left the money for her even when she insisted that she wanted to pay. They both exchanged contact and left.

Well, Rukayat went home that night and was lost in thought. Not as if Dayo was looking bad but Dayo riding keke? She couldn't wrap her head around it. She Pitied him. Felt Sorry for him. If Dayo had allowed her she would have paid him and beg him to keep the change.

Little did she know that, Dayo actually has another keke running for him, He is a Land owner and he is planning on developing it soon. But because he was riding a Keke, She felt Pity for him.

On the other hand, Dayo felt sorry for himself too. Before he slept that night, he remembered Rukayat, how neatly she dressed and nice she smells, "She must be earning over 300,000 Naira per month" he said to himself. He felt ashamed, He felt like a failure and he felt she was way ahead of him financially and otherwise.

Little did he know that, If Rukayat removes the transportation fare and feeding money from her monthly salary, it will take her at least 3 Months to earn what he earns monthly.

Sadly, this could be some of our reality, you measure your progress and success with that of your friends, Classmates and Relatives even with very limited information you have about them.

You think yours is worse because you look dirtier, you think yours is worse because you are not on Corporate wears, you think yours is worse because the other person acts and looks Nicer.

Stay Focused and Face your life. It's not a competition. Stop Comparing things, you don't have the full picture. Every one is running on his own lane. Be contented.

Be focused👌.
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