Nuphase Relationship Experts Couple's Forum

08/06/2026

Men don't have issues with 50/50 in marriage. They only say this to humble a woman's ego and when she's nonchalant.

03/06/2026

you caught your man cheating and you are with a ten motn old baby, what should be done

30/05/2026

29/05/2026

Good evening,

At my place of work today, there were a group of married women advising one of their fellow that her husband died months ago.

Guess what? They were helping her check Temu for a good d***o at the affordable prices. This is a woman that already had 3 kids if I am not mistaken. They noticed the loss of her husband is telling on her and she needs to cheer up. They observed on Monday that she was down all through and today she like throwing herself at people, happy but we knew if the opportunity present itself at the time, she would chop dick immediately leading to helping her find d***o online.

What am I saying, we all need ourselves. What d***o can't do, men does it. His warmness goes a long way. He touching and caressing your breasts is good and better to experience which d***o cant do. Romance allows you to communicate and profess your feelings, love and promises but she can't find it in d***o and she probably misses it after her man's death. She's working and has her salary to herself but her happiness is incomplete with her husband's absence.

Money will try to fill the vacuum. D***o will try its own but it can't be quantified with when you have a man in your life. While you have your man with you today, ensure you have s*x if possible 3 times a day and make it so enjoyable to never forget.

Make sure you make move for s*x as he makes move for it also. Don't be boring in s*x and don't let him believe he's forcing you to have it.

Good night

28/05/2026

Hi, am Catherine 28years old. I have a confession to make hide id. My parents were unable to pay my school fees when I was 14years old. I dropped out of school at 17years. I met a guy who sent me back to school, he sold fruits in the streets in order to pay my school fees. He later got a job as a truck driver and took me to the university.

Now am working as a lawyer, my problem is that I can't continue the relationship with this guy. I mean he is not my type. Am grateful he paid my school fees but No way I can’t marry a truck driver.

How do I tell him he is not my type without hurting him?"🐾🐾

28/05/2026

You will never know how good it is if your man is begging for your attention until you find yourself in the situation whereby you are the one begging for his attention.

Men are kind and easy especially if he's your husband but when it gets to that point, the case is closed and that's why men tolerate women a lot to avoid that's stage.

When he's chasing you, pls do little shakara or don't do at all and accept him. Don't try to form independent woman just because society favours women. Loneliness is something personal. It is not shareable.

In the lifetime if a man, loneliness is part of it especially in old age. So men can still manage to deal with it.

Good evening

27/05/2026

Good morning family and happy ILEYA festival

Make I tell you this,

The best way to naturally improve your communication flow in marriage or relationship is to make sure your s*xual life is not on grace period or on holiday. Make sure your s*xual life is like your MTN or Airtel Data.

Avoid regular s*x and kiss your relationship good bye gradually.

When s*x is not adequate, the end result grows to malice and distance and other things that will ruin marriage.

Do you know that many women don't know how to s*x to please your man. I will talk about this later in the day. Just use this one hold body

Thanks

23/05/2026

Hi ,
Please hide my ID.

My husband of 6 years is divorcing me because he discovered that our first born is not his child. We were planning to relocate to Canada and my husband demanded a paternity test.

Our first born test came out negative. The other two kids were positive. Since we married I have not cheated on him, and I have been thinking what went wrong and then it occurred to me that my first child was probably the product of the goodbye encounter with my Ex few weeks before I got married.

The child is 5 this year. Am I wrong to think my husband is overreacting? He loves this child and has been a good father from birth. Why is he letting a meagre test change all this? The child is still the same. Intelligent, humble, loving and cute. Why can't we pray about it and invite God to our house?

I am so drained right now.

Please advice me, pls Reserve your judgment. Please save my Marriage.

22/05/2026

My husband earns around 800k every month. Out of that, he gives me 200k for feeding and running the house, 60k for the children’s school needs, and another 100k for light bills, medicine, and little unexpected expenses. In total, about 360k comes into the home monthly, while he keeps the rest.

Recently, I became curious about our finances and asked him how much he had saved over the years, but he avoided the conversation. Later, I checked and discovered he had about 14M saved. Honestly, after more than three years of work and all the sacrifices we’ve made as a family, I expected it to be much more.

What confused me most is that my husband is not someone who spends recklessly. He eats at home most of the time, only buys lunch occasionally at work, and aside from helping family members once in a while and paying the children’s school fees, there’s nothing extravagant he does.

When I asked him calmly to explain how the savings were only 14M, the conversation turned into an argument. Instead of answering me, he started bringing up my own salary and asking whether he had ever questioned the money in my account. Since then, the house has been tense and silent.

This morning, he even said if I’m unhappy, I’m free to leave the marriage because he will never discuss his money with me.

Now I’m honestly confused. Is it wrong for a wife to want transparency about the future of her family? Or did I overstep boundaries by checking his account and questioning his savings?

18/05/2026

Good evening family

There are two things women must experience in their lives. They need the mixture of the two to be happy.

Pain and sweetness = enjoyment for women. If you make things too easy for women, she will not value you. She will throw it to your face and when you make it too hurts, she endures more with the hope that things will get better and play the victim card to get sympathy from people.

So pls note this as a man, no matter how much and long your wife or babe promised you love, she will keep testing you till you leave or divorce her.

Never marry another lady who knows the story about your ex babe or wife. She will do everything to make sure your babe leave directly or not and do more worst things than your ex babe or wife did to you

When your babe apologize to you, deep down her mind and unconsciously, she knew she won't change and the apology is to buy more time to repeat the same issues again.

When you give her voices, she gives you reasons why you need to pity her and do her job. If you do it again, she will look for someone else she would rather do the job for. So you need some sort of force on your woman if she's to comply to you.women don't obey but you can force them to comply. Any woman that obeys you is more than regular lady we have, she's from heaven sent to you.

Chase your vision and instead of sacrificing your destiny for her. Women are not grateful persons.