08/12/2024
When you got married, your wife couldn't do anything without letting you know.
• Today, you just see things; you discover she has a new dress when she is stepping out.
• You come back and see food that you didn't request.
• She no longer initiates s*x as before.
• She does her things independently.
She still respects you as her husband. It's time to address the issue calmly if you feel innocent.
Nowadays, many men are frustrated with their wives because of changes in their character and behavior.
They fail to understand this and start playing the victim when the wife has also changed accordingly.
There is a period of reflection in every marriage, especially when you discover a change of character.
Ask yourself: Was she like this when we got married? Why the sudden change in character? What have I done to deserve this?
Women are like chameleons in marriage. They change their behavior according to the environment created by the husband.
When you create an environment that has no security for her, she changes his character and start looking for means of her personal security should in case you finally exposed her.
When you create an environment with good security, she helps you to reinforce the security at the highest level.
You wouldn't hurt someone repeatedly and expect them to remain the same.
You wouldn't threaten them with divorce repeatedly and expect loyalty and truthfulness.
This is why intelligent and wise women sometimes divorce when the man least expects it.
There will be a moment when they cry and beg you to change.
You'll be happy about their desperation. When she stops, she prepares her life and leaves. The man will then shout everywhere that his wife left with everything.
While some women are self-interested, it's easy to identify them during dating or the early years of marriage.
Nevertheless, such women usually have a problem with their choice of partner. You can easily identify them when you hear a woman say, "I can't date or marry a poor man."
This statement reveals a clear sense of what the future might look like if things fall apart.
When a woman changes her character and behavior in marriage, it's mostly because she senses the marriage has no future and could crumble at any time.
It's up to the man to notice this and initiate serious communication before it gets out of hand.
