27/07/2020
THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN "OUR MONEY" & "MY MONEY" IN MARRIAGE
Today I choose to talk about this topic because I have come across many women who just decide to sit down & do nothing with their time as a person simply because they are "MARRIED" & have the Opinion that "My husband's money is Mine"
Yes in marriage we are meant to understand that everything that belongs to hubby is also yours but this theory works practically sometimes when it comes to properties compared to finances👌
There's nothing as intelligent & smart as having your own source of income as hubby also is having his👌this will help in complimenting each other & also create room for more mutual understanding, communication & respect for each other.
Spending your personal money you worked for is completely different from when you always ask for every single thing you need as a woman.
Before the marriage you have a life! Even if you don't have a defined life before getting into the marriage,your first focus should be to create one for yourself to avoid boring your partner with your endless needs cos trust me,women needs are endless😍
I could remember when I got married newly, wasn't working,totally depending on hubby for everything & I can boldly tell you it wasn't funny for me. Hubby went as far as handing me his ATM card with his pin yet I feel highly uncomfortable withdrawing money for my needs the way I want to & that kept me searching for what to do to earn money for myself.
Hubby might be very nice to a fault by giving you right to everything but that doesn't give any woman the right to be lazy & crazy about it👌
I have come across women that are living a very comfortable life,lack nothing,travel round the world & live life in their own terms & unfortunately hubby died or incapacitated & within 1year they went down to nothing as bad as not being able to afford children's school fees thereby taking them from the high & prestigious school to the very low & altering the lives of these children🤷....Reason being that they refused to plan ahead when hubby was alive👌
If I should follow my hubby's tender, loving, care, I won't work, cos he gives me all! But I know he won't live forever; nobody does. What happens when he transits!
Am tired of seeing women and families on SUV jeep today and in "keke" or on a bike next day, shortly after the demise of the hubby. Pls don't cheat yourself anymore!
👉The best time to plan your life is when you have your partner by your side
👉When you have a strong support system
📌Not a time to relax & forget completely who you are as a person......I always believe everyone is created with a very unique personality that can impact the world positively.......Don't bury yours cos of MARRIAGE rather let it shine through your world🔥🔥🔥🔥
That will help you with the right mindset to start up a business & nurture it into a great business in the nearest future.
As a woman when you work & assist your own immediate family you will feel much better than putting the burden on hubby to take care of your responsibility,his children & your family.....probably your mum👌
It feels more comfortable & easier telling hubby things like👇
Honey: i want to help my mother with.........(your personal money)
Than saying honey,pls help me to do this.........for my mum🤷(His money)
There's a limit to which you can continue to make such requests from your spouse.
Having a personal source of income increases the love in marriage cos it helps you to take proper care of him as well. He needs it, you know what I mean?
It helps you to give him some surprise packages(which spices up your marriage)most at times which to an extent reduces his level of stress that society must have pushed on him!
It gives hubby a high level of confidence over you knowing that someone got his back anyday anytime👌
It gives him the freedom to share his ideas of
Investment with you without any fear
Many women even go as far as taking from their husband's money without his knowledge cos they feel "it's our money" , am sure they are tired of asking as well😍 but note that when you spend hubby's money without permission it is called "STEALING".
To avoid being an inner thief😍😍instead of the honourable wife that you are pls kindly get yourself something doing.......it doesn't matter how long it takes you to build it but pls keep building it until it Pays you massively👌
👉My company is giving out a free registration & with 20k,38k or 50k you are good to start up your own business just like I did casually 3years ago👌
📌Start building your tomorrow today cos Nobody will do that for you👌
For any man here that is reading this post right now👉you can help or encourage your wife to start up her own business as well with me......don't wait till when you need that support system financially........Your wife can be that greatest financial support you have always looked out for 👍
