11/04/2026
WASU ABUBUWA DA YA KAMATA MATA SU SANI GAME DA MU MAZA.
- Wato mufa maza muna son mace wayayya amma muna tsoron mace gogaggiya (wadda takai maqura a wayewa). Don haka idan mace tanaso ta zauna da namiji lafiya dole ne ta boye masa gogewarta musamman akan ababen da dama basu buqatar a nuna maqurar wayewa akansu.
- Mu maza munfi buqatar mace mai aiki ba mai surutu ba; Abin nufi anan shine idan mijinki ya bayyana miki wani abu dayake buqata to ki aikata masa wannan abin (koda baikai yadda ya nema ba) yafi akan kidinga jaddada masa cewa zaki aikata abinda yanda yakeso ko sama da yanda yakeso.
- Namiji yafi buqatar biyayya sama da tsantsar soyayya. Duk soyayyar da zaki nuna ga namiji idan bazai iya neman abinda yakeso ba kuma kimasa shi a sanda yakeso to bazai taba fahimtar duk abinda zaki masa ba da zai nuna soyayyarki gareshi.
- Namiji yanason juriya a mace amma bayason jarumtarta domin sarki biyu baya zama wuri daya. Juriya tana nufin dakewa duk da cewa ita mace halitta ce mai rauni, ita kuwa jarumta siffa ce dake nuna cikar namiji don haka idan kema kika siffantu da ita to kin kishiyanceshi kenan dole yaji tsoronki.
Shawarata a wannan gabar itace, koda Allah ya halicceki da halin jarumta to idan kika ga abin tsoro (ga 'yan'uwanki mata) misalin qadangare, bera ko kyankyaso to ko bai baki tsoron ba kinuna kinji tsoron saboda rashin nuna jin tsoron matsala zai haifar miki wajen mijin da k**e tare dashi.
- Namiji bayason macen da batayin shirme, Eh shirme dakika sani.... wannan shirmen yana cikin dalilan da s**a sa mafi yawan maza suke fifita auren mata masu qananun shekaru sama da masu manya, hak**a yana cikin fifikon auran budurwa akan bazawara. Don haka duk hankalinki kidan dinga k**anta shirme (mai ma'ana) wajen mijinki yafi kice komai ke na hankali zakiyi saboda kin mallaki hankalin kanki.
- Namiji dama data kadai yake bawa mace idan tayi amfani da damar ta ribaci zuciyarsa shikenan idan kuma tayi sakaci da damar ta hanyar amfani da damar wajen muzguna masa to daya kwace dama baya iya qabayar da ita gareki.
- Namiji yana jaraba mace da abubuwa dayawa kamin tasamu haqiqanin karbuwa a zuciyarsa, amma daga sanda ta karbu din to kuma sai yanda taso juyashi (sai dai idan batasan hannun ta ba).
- Zaki iya kiyita qoqarin kyautatawa namiji amma kiga yanata qin amincewa dake sak**akon kila wata data taba shiga rayuwarsa ta cutar dashi ko ta munana masa.
Bari dai na bari hakan, sai wani lokacin idan Allah yaqara ara min dama sai muji wadansu daban. Allah ya bamu ikon amfanuwa.
✍️ Ahmad Yusuf Dansarai
1 Ramadan, 1447
18th February, 2026