HAUSA Marital Consult

13/02/2026

CREATING AWARENESS AND PROPELLING SOLUTIONS TO PREMATURE HOMES BREAKDOWN DUE TO Irrational AND OFTEN FLIMSY REASONS BACKED BY PRIDE AND PREJUDICE. SALVATION THE FUTURE OF WOMEN AND CHILDREN WHO HAPPEN TO BE PRODUCTS AND VICTIMS OF BROKEN MARRIAGES. REPOSITIONING MARRIAGE IN A SCIENTIFIC AND TECHNOLOGICAL ECONOMIC TERRAINS IN OUR SOCIETY. PLEASE COMMENT ALTRUISTICALLY. BLESSED FRIDAY TO ALL OF US

19/10/2025

Karin kumallonmu na yau

Ya Yan uwana maza da mata inaso inja hankalin mu akan rayuwa mukaranci duniya sai musan yadda zamu rayu acikinta ita duniya da mutanen cikinta akwai rikitarwa idan s**a Saka agaba saikaji rayuwar babu dadi maganin zaman duniya da zama da mutanen cikinta lfy rike mutunci

Indan karike mutuncika kabar kwadayi akan kayan alatun dake cikin duniya kanafadama kanka du abun dake duniya akwai Wanda yafishi a lahira Kuma ka kwadaitu da lahira sosai kana fadawa kanka duniyar dazan barta ko yau ko anjima du abun dana mallaka barshi zanyi bazan tafi da Shiba kana tuntuntuni wa kanka wlh zakaji ba abun da zai daga hankalin ka bare duniya ta rudeka har kasabawa ubangijinka

Aban garen mutanan cikinta kuwa mutum indai atarayarku baya karamaka kaimi wajan yiwa Allah biyayya to kar kayadda yasa kasabawa Allah kome zaibaka domin da Kai dashi da abun da kuka mallaka du na Allah ne a lkcn dakasabawa Allah saboda wani wlh kayi babbar asara kacuci kanka

Kasani sadda Allah zaikama ka bazai iya kwatarka ba tun aduniya Allah na iya jarabtarka da ciwo du iya gatan da wannan Wanda kasabawa Allah akansa zaimaka bazai iya ciremaka ciwon ba 😭😭😭

Koda yakaika asibiti batare zaku kwanta agadon ba radadin ciwon bashi yakejiba asannan zakayi nadaman tarayyarku Mafi akasarin mutane lafiyarmu sukeso bamu ba inkana da lfy za ayidakai inbaka da lfy za ace anemo me cike gurbinka Yan uwana muyiwa kanmu fada mubi Allah 😭😭😭

Shike da abun bamu shine mai rayawa shine Kuma mai kashewa shine mai azurtawa shine maisanya cuta shine maibada lfy shine me wuta da aljanna bayan Allah bamai irin wannan suffar 😭😭😭

Yan uwana kar mutsaya mubata lkcn mu har musa bawa Allah wajan neman yardar wani da bazai baka daya cikin abunda na lissafa ba du Wanda yaga bazaitafi dakaiba sai kayi irin abun dayake nasabon Allah katafi kabarshi zama dashi asarane mukula

Muyiwa Allah biyayya da iya karfinmu idan kayi tunani Jin dadin duniya gaba daya yanacikin da a wa Allah dukan alkhairi Yana cik

02/04/2024

18/10/2023

BIG 7 SECRETS IN MARRIAGE THAT WILL SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR BETTER.

Secret 1

Everyone you marry has a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
1. Ignorance
2. Prayerlessness
3. Unforgiveness
4. Third party influence
5. Stinginess
6. Stubbornness
7. Lack of love
9. Rudeness
10. Laziness
11. Disrespect
12. Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it.
Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7

The Creator of the universe cannot give you a complete person you desire.
He gives you the person in the form of raw materials.

10/09/2023

24/07/2023

*Khadijah (R A) is indeed a special woman!!!*

TWO THIRD (2/3) of the Makkah area belongs to Siti Khadijah bint Khuwailid, the first wife of the Prophet. She is a noble woman who bears the glory and abundance of wealth. But when she died, she did not have a shroud. Even the clothes she wore at the time of her death were shabby clothes with 83 patches.
"Fatimah my daughter, I believe my death will come soon," whispered Khadijah to Fatimah just before her death. "What I fear is the torment of the grave. Please ask your father, that he give his turban which he usually used to receive revelations to be used as my shroud. I am ashamed and afraid to ask for it myself."
Hearing that, the Messenger of Allah (SAW) said, "O Khadija, Allah sends greetings to you, and has prepared your place in heaven."
Siti Khadijah, Ummul Mu'minin (the mother of the believers), then breathed her last in the lap of the Prophet. He embraced his wife feeling very, very sad . The tears of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and all those who were there were shed.

In such an atmosphere, the Angel Gabriel descended from the sky with greetings and brought five shrouds.
The Messenger of Allah answered Gabriel's greetings, then asked, "Who is the shroud for, O Jibril?"
"This shroud is for Khadijah, for you, O Messenger of Allah, for Fatima, Ali and Hasan," replied Jibril who suddenly stopped saying, then wept.
The Messenger of Allah asked, "Why, O Jibril?"
"Your one grandson, Husain, does not have a shroud. He will be slaughtered, lying without a shroud and not bathed," replied Jibril.
The Prophet said near Khadijah's body, "O Khadija my dear wife, by Allah, I will never get a wife like you. Your devotion to Islam and myself is extraordinary. Allah knows all your deeds. All of your wealth you donate to Islam. The Muslims also enjoy it . All the clothes of the Muslims and my clothes are also from you. However, why is your last request to me just a turban!?"
The Prophet sobbed reminiscing about

07/04/2023

May the new elected Kano stewardship reinvigorate the marriage of widows and divorcees as it was the practice before the lapsing eight years of corruption, torment, abuse of women and youths. May Allah direct their affairs and enrich them with good comrades, associates, advisors and a prayerful follwership to meet most of the aspirations of the Kano people

15/11/2022

NIGERIA IS A LADY IN A COURTSHIP. SHE IS CURRENTLY BEING BETTED BY FOUR SUITORS, VIS THE GOOD, THE BAD, THE UGLY AND THE DEVIL.HOW COULD YOU HELP HER IDENTIFY AND CHOOSE THE GOOD SO THAT SHE MAY NOT FALL FREY TO THE REST OF THE THREE, AND IN YOUR OWN UNDERSTANDING WHO IS THE GOOD, THE BAD, THE UGLY AND THE DEVIL? (PLEASE NO ABUSIVE LANGUAGE. THE ADJECTIVES AR ONLY USED TO QUALIFY EACH OF THE CONTESTANTS IN RELATION TO THE CURRENT SITUATION THE NATION FINDS ITSELF AND THE ROLES EACH OF THEM MAY HAVE CONTRIBUTED IN MESSING IT UP).

05/10/2022

Shin Kwankwaso Zai Iya Cin Takarar Shugaban Ƙasar Nijeriya?

Bari na bada wani ɗan labari a taƙaice:

“Mafi girman masifar da zata afkawa mutum ba wai ya siyar da ruhinsa ga shaiɗan bane, a'a sam, babbar masifar ita ce mutum ya kaiwa shaiɗan tallan ruhinsa kwatsam kuma shaiɗan ɗin yace ba ya siye.” – Wannan shine sakin layin da Wasily ya buɗe wasiƙar sa dashi, wasiƙar nan dai daya aikawa abokinsa Yanis. Yanis, yayin karanta wasiƙar sai yace a ransa: “ko me ya samu abokina da ya zambaɗo wannan uban karin magana?”

Sai wasiƙar Wasily ta cigaba: “na gama PhD amma duka masana'antu sunƙi bani aiki. Kuma na na jiyo wani malamin tsimi da tanadi yana cewa idan leburanci yayi arha masana'antu zasu yi yunƙurin cin gajiyar arhar don haka sai su ɗauki sabbin ma'aikata. Da jin haka sai na zabtare albashin da nake nema da kaso sittin. Amma har yanzu ban samu aiki ba”.

Sai Yanis yayi murmushi yace: “har yanzu wanna ƙaryar ta arhar lebura tana aiki dama?.......ya kai aminina Wasily, ka ajiye wannan banzar fahimta data mamaye Amurka ƙarƙashin mulkin Reagan, da Birtaniya ƙarƙashin mulkin Thatcher, ka kuma yi amfani da hakan ka san cewa, arhar ma'aikata bata sawa a ɗauke su aiki, imanin za'a samu riba ne kaɗai yake sanyawa a ɗau ma'aikata.......a yanzu kuma cunkushewar al'amura ta sanya gaba ɗaya masana'antu sunyi imani da cewar ko kyauta mutum zaiyi musu aiki bazasu ɗauke shi ba, saboda idan sun ɗauke shi baza'a sayar da abinda aka sarrafa ba don haka baza'a samu riba ba. Don haka ka ƙaddara a ranka yakai aminina, cewa duk tsadar albashinka, idan masana'antu sun yarda za'a ci riba, to wallahi sai sun baka aiki. Haka kuma duk arhar albashinka, idan masana'antu s**a yarda baza'a ci riba ba, toh fa sai dai kayi haƙuri.”

Wannan jidali na masana tsimi da tanadi yayi daidai da yadda wasu mutane ke tambayar: SHIN KWANKWASO ZAI IYA CIN ZAƁEN SHUGABAN ƘASA A SHEKARAR 2023?

Da fari dai, kamar aikin yi a duniyar da Wasily ya rubuto wasiƙa, duk ƙarfin da ɗan siyasa yake ji yana da shi, idan mutane basu yi imani zai iya cin zaɓe ba, to bazai ci zaɓe ba... Ba don komai ba sai saboda wannan imanin ne zai hana su zaɓarsa, kuma da ƙuri'unsu ne kaɗai zai iya cin zaɓe. Haka kuma duk raunin ɗan siyasa, idan mutane s**a yi imanin bazai ci zaɓe ba, to haƙiƙa zai ci, saboda imanin nasu ne zai tunzurasu su zaɓe shi, kuma ƙuri'unsu ne dai za'a lissafa a bashi kujerar.

Cakwakiyar dai kamar abinda Malamin falsafa Rousseau ya faɗa ne akan mu'ujiza. A ra'ayinsa, ita ɗin tana yiwa kanta aiki ne. Da ace Sarki Oedipus, wanda bokaye s**a ce ɗansa zai girma ya kashe shi, ya kau da kai ya raini ɗan nasa da kansa maimakon jefar dashi har maƙiya su tsinta su raine shi ya zamo makashi, ai ɗan nasa bai zamo maƙiyinsa ba har ya kashe shi. Amma da ya jefar, maƙiya s**a tsinta s**a raina, sai jawabin bokaye yayi aiki, ɗansa yazo ya kashe shi.

Ya kai me tambaya a kan Kwankwaso, shin kasan da kai da Sarki Oedipus baku da maraba, haka kuma shaci faɗin ƴan adawa bashi da maraba da zancen bokaye? Idan ka bari aka saka maka shakku akan yiwuwar cin zaɓen Kwankwaso, to tun ana kwankwaso ya faɗi zaɓe, kuma kaine ka kayar dashi. Amma kuma idan shaci faɗin mutane ya ƙara maka imani, ranar gobe dakai za'a haɗu a yiwa bokaye dariya, yayin da shi kuma jagora ke can Villa yana warware ɓarnar da aka yiwa Nijeriya.

Wannan yasa a matsayinka na me burin ganin wani ɗan siyasa yaci zaɓe, in dai har da gaske kake kana so yaci ɗin, kada ka tambaya ko zai iya ci ɗin, kawai kayi imani, ranar zaɓe kuma kaje ka dangwala masa ƙuri'a. A aikace, wannan shine nasara, kamar yadda yakamata mu gane cewa a falsafance, imani shine mu'ujiza ba shakku ba. Shakku rusa ta yake.

Ga masu shakku akan wanda suke burin ya zamo shugaba, sakamakonsu zai zamo kamar masana'antun da s**a hana Wasily aiki ne- asara, da kuma irin goben Sarki Oedipus - mutuwa da bin kunya. Dukkansu mummunar ƙaddara ce zata afkawa burin na su.

Amma kuma g wanda s**a yi imani da yiwuwar zamowar jagoransu shugaba, tarihin Bill Clinton, Barrack Obama, Ibrahim Shekarau a 2003, Rabi'u Kwankwaso a 2011, sun ishe su ishara. Imaninsu ya bawa zancen bokayen dakali kunya! Hakan kuma yasa a komai kayi imani kawai, ka kuma sa wasu suyi, kyakkyawar ƙaddara na nan tafe. Idan kuma kana musu, ranar zaɓe jeka ka cillawa Kwankwaso ƙuri'a ka gani idan bai zamo shugaban ƙasar Nijeriya.

30/09/2022
Lawan M Ahmad Karaye