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Mature Dating & Marriage, Lagos (2026)

15/02/2026

My mentor, KSO Kolade Segun Okeowo writes...

*VALENTINE'S DAY: 💘 💘 💘 💘 💘 💘 Not For Emergency Lovers: Rediscovering the True Meaning of Valentine's Day*
Today is Valentine's Day and the air is filled with excitement, expectations, and a hint of desperation. To crown it all, this year's edition falls on a Saturday.
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However, amidst the sea of red roses, heart-shaped chocolates, and romantic getaways, it's glaring we are losing sight of what this day truly represents?
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For many young people, Valentine's Day has become an opportunity for emergency love affairs, cheap emotional entanglements, and illicit sexual indulgences.

*But this is a far cry from the true spirit of Valentine's Day.*
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The story of Saint Valentine, the monk who inspired this celebration, is one of true and sacrificial love.
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In the 3rd century AD, Saint Valentine defied Emperor Claudius II's decree prohibiting young soldiers from marrying, believing that single men made better soldiers.
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Father Valentine continued to perform secret marriages, and when caught, he was sentenced to death.
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While in prison, Valentine became a friend to the jailer's daughter, who was blind. He prayed for her sight to be restored and wrote her a letter, signing it *"From your Valentine."*
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Before his ex*****on, Valentine's prayers were answered, and the jailer's daughter's sight was miraculously restored.
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Saint Valentine's story is a testament to the power of true love – a love that is willing to sacrifice for the sake of others, a love that is pure, selfless, and unconditional.
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This is the love that Valentine's Day should represent, not the fleeting, selfish, and destructive "love" that often masquerades as romance.
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Agape love, the Greek word for the highest form of love, is what Saint Valentine embodied. It is a love that seeks the best for others, without expectation of reward or reciprocation. This is the love that should inspire our relationships, not the cheap imitations that prioritize instant gratification over true connection.
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As we celebrate Valentine's Day, let's reclaim the true meaning of this celebration. Let's honour Saint Valentine's legacy by embracing a love that is pure, sacrificial, and genuine. *Let's reject the notion that Valentine's Day is for emergency lovers or cheap thrillers.* Instead, let's celebrate the beauty of true love, the kind that endures beyond a single day.
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So, this Valentine's Day, let's choose to love differently. Let's choose to love with intention, with kindness, and with sacrifice. Let's choose to honour the true spirit of Saint Valentine, and may our love be a reflection of the ultimate sacrifice – the love of God, who gave His only Son for us.
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Happy Valentine's Day, and may our love be the change we wish to see in the world.
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*JESUS IS THE GREATEST VALENTINE !!!!*

13/10/2025

We are in the business of matchmaking, marital counselling, relationship advice...

You're not paying a dime for any services rendered, kindly give us a call or message us on whatsapp.

Let's help you get settled and get connected again...

11/10/2025

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Edaonileola Ade Oba, Modupe Dosumu

27/01/2025

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Alhaji Akeem Jubril, Ahmad Murtadoh, Destiny Brittany Limnyuy, Fredrick Adeyemi, Adedoyin Akintomide, Elizabeth Heather, Kavita Bhatt, Anpad Driver, Anand Pal

13/11/2024

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Jimi Osho, Queen Bestman, Marian Inko-Tariah, Jack

31/10/2024

I made a comment on one of our platforms recently, if you don't value what you have when you loose it you may never get it back...

Again, keep your relationship private. No one needs to know how good your husband or wife is on bed, that information is exclusively between you and your partner.

Remember, no be only you deserve good thing. See comment section for more gist on this. I have first hand experience n learn a lesson in a hard way.

IT'S A DATING PLATFORM, BE MATURE & RESPONSIBLE.
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11/10/2024

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Rest assured that our services are offered at no cost, and you will not be charged. To begin, please use the WhatsApp button provided in this post.

This standardized procedure ensures we deliver high-quality matches based on the information you provide.

Name

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Weight

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And any other thing you wish to tell us about you.

11/10/2024

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Please be advised that this group focuses on fostering connections for friendship, dating, relationships, and marriage.

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10/10/2024

HOW TO HANDLE FIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

1. Know that it is normal for two people in love to disagree, offend each other, fall short, or misunderstand each other.

2. Always remember how much you love and need each other. Remembering this will give you the incentive to resolve any conflict between you two. Don't throw away true love because of a passing storm.

3. Know each other's temperaments. If you are a hot-tempered person, tell your partner/spouse so that your partner/spouse will prepare incase you spark off. But work on your temper still.

4. Agree how to handle fights before fights emerge. A nation develops a constitution to guide its operation, partners/spouses agree on what to do to guide in relations.

5. Don't let the fear of fighting or disagreeing with your partner/spouse keep you two from confronting each other and expressing your feelings. Too many are tired, bored, frustrated or angry in their relationship/marriage but pretend all is well because they are afraid of talking about heavy and uneasy stuff with their partner. Slowly their relationship/marriage collapses, you can't pretend for long.

6. Before you confront and blame your partner/spouse, analyze the situation and see if you have played a role in causing the problem.

7. When a fight between you two is approaching or something happens that inflames tempers, walk away, cool off. Don't talk in anger. Cool down then talk rationally.

8. Remember you are in the same team. Fighting your partner/spouse is fighting what you two have, which in effect is fighting yourself.

9. Avoid insults. Hold and control your tongue, hurtful words only complicate matters, once they are spoken they can't be taken back.

10. Don't be tempted to use the information your partner/spouse shared with you in trust to get your way. Don't use the secrets your partner/spouse shared with you to attack or intimidate your partner/spouse.

11. Don't disclose matters to a third party. Solve the matter the two of you. Don't gossip about the short comings of your partner/spouse to your family or friends. Don't air your dirty linen in public. Cover each other from outsiders as you two remain naked to each other.

12. Pray together. Prayer clears up the air, restores love and order, brings unity of purpose and reminds you that God is watching and you both are God's children.

13. When talking. about the matter, fully talk about it, look for its root cause, lay everything on the table. A problem that is not fully addressed or understood will keep recurring.

14. Give each other a chance to speak. None should feel silenced.

15. Be mindful of your body language. You may not insult but your partner/spouse is paying attention to your body language. Don't sneer, click or show contempt.

16. Never use your child/children to settle scores in a cold war with each other. You are both loved the same by the child/children.

17. Conclude the matter quickly. The longer tension exists between you two, the more dangerous it grows.

18. Accept responsibility. Being mature doesn't mean you won't do wrong or fall short; it means that when you do mess you are wise enough to apologize. Say sorry if you are on the wrong, forgive when you are wronged.

19. Come up with a way forward to prevent the matter from happening again or from causing much damage in the future.

20. Hug. Kiss. Make up. Make love.

21. Laugh about it. Find comedy in your difficult times. No storm lasts always. You two will come out through it closer and stronger. Stay focused, your love is worth fighting for, not fighting each other.

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