08/03/2022
Don't marry anyone you don't respect, he will beat you. You know why he'll beat you? You will run your mouth, you will insult him and he will beat you unless he has self-control.
If you don't respect him you will disrespect him. A man don't like to be disrespected even little boys they want to be respected but the fact of the matter is that respect is something you earn so if you don't respect the man don't marry him, it doesn't matter what he gives you don't marry him,You have to respect him. You see Rosa, she is a very powerful woman but me and her, there is no issue of submission I'm a king, I rule. There is no argument, when I rule its a decree but there is no argue and I don't lord it over her No no no....I'm very responsible.
Now men if you want your wife to respect and submit to you, is not rough power it's soft power, strength under control. Now brothers don't be afraid of the sisters if you're mature, if you're responsible you don't have to be afraid of them because it doesn't matter how successful and how powerful a woman is if you're responsible and mature she will give you her chance but if you're irresponsible and you're a younger brother it won't work, she will run her mouth and women can talk by the time you say one she will say a thousand and she can vex you. So anyone, any man that you don't respect don't marry them.
Now there is something, I will say it in a way. Should a man marry a woman who doesn't know how to cook? Yes Or No? I'll leave it to the panel.
Now men, any woman who doesn't respect you don't marry her and if she doesn't speak to the king in you but she speaks to the foolishness in you don't marry her because everyone of us has a king and foolishness in us and the one that is your wife will bring the king out of you. Whenever she speaks to you, you will feel like, my God!!....
She will tell you potentials in you that you don't know of, she'll tell you that you can do this, you are better than this, you're capable, you're good, you can do this don't mind them she will build up your confidence and make you feel good about yourself but the woman that pulls you down and makes you feel like you're nothing that you can't do it without her and without her you're nothing you're nobody, that one is trouble because when you marry her she will disrespect you and you'll beat her. I'm saying this because this is Africa and you African men you beat your wives even born again .....
DUNCAN Williams
We revive the world with the word.
