21/04/2017
My thought this morning before I stumbled on this write up,we can't afford to be this kind of woman ,God forbid.
So....
your man tells you he is not planning on having kids or getting married anytime soon as he is still sorting out his life...
He tells you he wants to have his second degree, a proper house and a bigger car first. You sit there smiling with just a birth certificate thinking you'll be the wife?
With the little he has, you ask for Brazilian hair and Gucci shoes and bag. He goes to work and goes straight to class after work. He leaves you in pyjamas and finds you in the same pyjamas...while he studies you watch Telamundo, Zee World, Empire and Africa Magic movies.
He comes back home to find chips and chicken in the microwave everyday. The house is clean and his clothes ironed... the only serious conversation y'all have is about the type of food stufyou guys need. The only real skill you have is taking selfies and updating your instagram.
The only advice you give him is "babe you need to buy new socks, the ones you bought last time are torn" nothing intelligent comes out of your mouth. No plans of making your own life better...yes you are pretty, no doubt about that!....
Do you realise something...
You are not doing anything a maid can't do....
He's going to finish school and the first thing he's going to REPLACE IS HIS MAID because he can now afford to pay one and have a PROPER WIFE/GF.
That's when we going to hear your famous last words "i was with him through thick and thin when he had nothing, now that he is successful he thinks i am nothing" Yes you're right. ..you have always been NOTHING but a maid to him...
Empower yourself to be the woman your man wants to be with...
A woman who would be able to carry the entire family if anything happens to his job or his health!!!
THINK BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE...
Empower yourself and others today who are still hoping for a miracle without putting in any work
Have a beautiful weekend
