16/01/2025
I believe that being selfess is an intelligent way of being selfish. Self-preservation is a natural instinct for all of us when confronted with life choices, and we usually elect to tow the line that gives us as stronger sense of control over our choice outcomes, so that they may favour us, even sometimes to the detriment of others, especially when we deem these situations to be unavoidable.
What if we choose to go on a little faith, beyond our natural intincts, and elect for our choices to never bring harm to others? This might not be an ideal for many of us, but I believe it would radically transform life and the dynamics of relationships for everyone if this became our default instinct than self preservation. From my experience, selflessness always delivers dividends and never fails to do so; not only for those that we show preference to, but inevitably to us as well. It is a great trust builder, which is the foundation of relationships.
Think about it; imagine a world where selflessness was the norm. It would be ideal for all of us, and not just a few, unlike a system where self-centredness rules. Selflessness ultimately builds an environmet/World where everyone thrives and is looked after. I would rather be selfish now by choosing to be selfess, because I know that this would be looking out for my own long term interest. What do you think?