02/02/2021
YOUR BOYFRIENDS ARE NOT YOUR HUSBANDS...!!!
Ladies.
A guy approached you for a relationship, and you tell him, 'I have a boyfriend'. Its very wrong to tell a guy, "I have a boyfriend', when a guy asks you out, You turn it down cose of a boyfriend Instead of a fiancé or husband. Its Totally wrong!
A guy met a Lady of 27 years he really admired, he asked her out and she boldly told him, 'NO! Using the word "I have a boyfriend!' " Jeeeez.!
Still having A boyfriend at 27 years.? A boyfriend has no right over any girl, because he is not yet matured to have a woman, that is why he is a boy. When a guy approach you, You can only tell him, " I am engaged or I am married'.
Telling a man that comes your way you have a boyfriend simply means you are still a kid playing around with a boy even at your grown age.
You can't keep a boyfriend for the rest of your life and expect to be married. And this is another main reasons why so many matured women are not Married yet Cose they are still stuck with that word "I have a boyfriend". A boyfriend that is unserious.
A boy must graduate to a youth, then to a man.
A boy is someone that keeps a girl for fun.
A fiancé is someone that want to marry her, and A man is that person that finally pay her dowry.
Having a boyfriend that S*X you every now and then doesn't mean you are in a serious relationship or you have a man that will marry you: it simply means, 'I have a boy that I have fun with' OR I have a boy that I had babies with.
You can have as many boyfriends at a time, but you can only have one fiancé and one husband.
Dont tie down your destiny with a boy. Don't tie down your destiny because of ignorant. Having a boyfriend is just like having a normal friend.
Having an intimate boyfriend is like having a s*xual partner, that marriage isn't yet involved.
It is not being in a relationship. Anybody is free to toast you, or to propose to you. Having s*x with a boy doesn't mean you guys are committed for each other.
You can be in a s*xual relationship and make babies and thinks or feels you are in a serious or committed relationship.
Committed relationship starts the moment you both had graduated from that childish fantasy, from that childish fallacy and that is when he takes the big step, Gives you an engagement ring, finally proposed to you and meet your parents. And your parents recognize him and appreciate his efforts for showing up as a man and even not yet wealthy to pay the dowry but but this gives a hope for a brighter future for Marriage.
If you are matured enough, and have a boyfriend who you already made babies with. Then try convince him that it time to move out of boyfriend zone. Let him propose with a ring and be a fiancé so you can call him a fiancé while you patiently wait to be married so you can be called a wife.
Stop being ignorant!
Stop living in ignorance.
You can reject your husband because of a boyfriend. All because of the childish word I have a boyfriend, instead of a fiancé or a husband.
Don't ever be proud of yourself as a lady just because you have a boy that S*X with you and make babies with you for Mahala. Anybody can be a boy or girlfriend, but not everyone can be a husband or a wife.
Therefore as a matured lady. Work hard towards having a fiancé or a husband not a boyfriend cose it childish for a matured woman of 27yrs old with children to keep saying he have a boy instead of a fiancé who already proposed with an engagement ring or better still a husband.
I come in peace....