29/06/2024
*Solutions to what kills marriage*
1. Laziness kills marriage : is very bad but before choosing a husband or wife one must have seen those characters.
2. Suspicious kill's marriage: Why will a husband or wife put password on your WhatsApp and others apps, one will bodily say you shouldn't suspect the person.
3. Trust kills marriage: trust is not gain but believing. How can a married woman and man dressing worldly, lies, associate with unbelievable people and not transparent, People expect us to trust them in the society, unrealistic. Therefore trust start's from self without expectancy.
4. Mutual respect kills marriage: What is mutual respect? Mutual respect means treating other people with dignity and recognising their value. It's a feeling of deep admiration for other people and their unique qualities. Being tolerant or behaving with tolerance means to accept other people's differences. Therefore it's collectives effect for us to respect our parents. But come to think of it, it has to do with absence of socialism which starts from family. Some don't respect there parents and we're expecting to get mutual respect in marriage. Manage your home and don't allow any barriers to break it. No excuse for any system malfunction in marriage.
5. Unforgiveness, bitterness, hatred and others kills marriage . It's is the act of the fruit of the holy spirit and religion people don't have it. The proper definition of LOVE is living our verities and endure, which our lord jesus Christ did for Us..
People has refused to sacrifice to the person the loved due to environmental factors and our generation keep on trading on what happens around society without proper knowledge of implementation.
We have more to work on our spiritual life which will bring out good results in our marriage and society at large.
Let's leave our right and get it right.
Let's build our home with God's words and vision not others people's vision and plans..
Don't allow any barriers to break your marriage.
Love is not all about good things that makes life sweeter, we should consider the pain aspect.
If love work's out good for you, please enjoy and enjoy more and don't use it to break others manageable ones.
Game of love is a game of survival
Let's build our home spiritual not on social media.
God bless us with more understanding.
Happy weekend and enjoy more.
