Miramon Ellis

15/03/2023

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18/04/2021

Why do mothers yell?

Because we’re overwhelmed.
Because no one’s listening.
Because our children are about to get hurt. “Don’t put your hand in there!”
Because the mess keeps piling up, and we're the only ones cleaning nonstop.

We yell as our arms charge up and down into the air.
We scream as our voice accelerates and our cheeks flush.

And then after we do, we feel immense guilt, defeated, and like we want to break down into tears.

We don't want to get to that point. We hate when it happens. But it does more than we'd like to admit.

Are all mothers angry, and that's why we yell? No, we don’t wake up this way.

We find ourselves losing it because this parenting thing is hard.

We lose it because we have so much anxiety and no outlet.
We lose it because we’re exhausted to the point where our brain is functioning at 10% battery, and we need more than a good night's sleep to recover. We need a break: because we’re tired of doing everything, of nobody listening, of not being appreciated.

But just because we lose it doesn’t make us bad parents. We’re just humans who care more than anything in this world about our children and the type of humans they'll become, all while wanting to keep them safe, that we get frustrated with them and mess up ourselves.

We don’t want them to be brats. So, sometimes we yell.
We don’t want them to hurt each other, and if they do that to each other, they must do that to other children. So, sometimes we yell.
We care so much about them that we get run down from trying so hard all the time…

…so, of course, we lose it.

And you’re not alone in this constant battle of losing it and feeling bad. Every single parent struggles because we’re human, and parenting’s messy, so we aren’t going to stay calm every confrontation of the day.

So if this is you today,
give yourself grace,
apologize for losing it,
and try better next time.

You’re still a good mom.

Happy mother's day to you all

Mira cares

29/03/2021

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03/03/2021

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20/02/2021

Do you really think the workforce is a better environment for women than her own home?

When people say fighting for the right to work was a decision that backfired on us, feminists always argue, "It's better than being in an abusive marriage", as if all marriages are abusive by default. For some reason, being happily married is not even viewed as a possibility to them, but that's beside the point...

Is the workforce really better than marriage? Is it really less abusive? Because last time I checked, women ARE being abused at work. Women ARE being harassed by their male co-workers and bullied by their female co-workers. Women ARE putting in extra hours and effort, but watching younger, hotter women get the promotion even though they didn't put in the work. Women ARE being underpaid. Women ARE missing out on valuable time with their children because they have to work long hours and irregular schedules.

Those are just a few things, but all of those things affect our mental health. So I'm not convinced at all that the workforce isn't abusive. Of course every woman isn't experiencing those things at work, but enough are. But as abusive as the workforce is, women still submit to the job environment. They still comply, they cooperate, and they do it every single day. But if men who aren't abusive want their submission, women laugh in their face and treat those men as if they are abusive for even making that request.

See, the workforce is structured to take advantage. It's structured to take more than it gives. It takes advantage of men too, but men are built for hard work. They have more resilience in that department than we do. And when they come home to a feminine woman who comforts and nurtures them, that gives them strength to go back out there and do what they need to do.

But who is comforting and nurturing the single woman when she comes home from a long, hard, abusive day at work? Don't say her children. Children are not built to be our counterpart. They are not responsible for us. We are responsible for them, and the workforce knows that and takes advantage of that reality. It takes advantage of the fact that you need that income to take care of you and your family. And it abuses you along the way because you have no choice but to stay. Sounds familiar?

The workforce that you love so much is exactly what you accuse men of being: abusive, controlling, predatory and toxic...but you still find it worth submitting to. Interesting.💎

Royal Wives Club

20/02/2021

If you want respect, protection and provision from men, then you should be showing them more respect.

Too often, women cling to their feminist friends, taking and giving terrible advice to each other, disrespecting men, living "their best life" (which is really a ratchet life), then when they need protection and resources, they turn directly to men--not their feminist friends.

If the women you associate with encourage you to live a certain lifestyle, then they should also have a safety net prepared for you once you hit rock bottom. They egg you on while you're downing men, so when men say they don't want to protect you because you have no respect for them, your feminist friends who encouraged you to be disrespectful need to step up and protect you.

If you are encouraged to be a w***e, then you get pregnant by a deadbeat, you shouldn't be looking for another man to help you take care of your child. Your feminist friends should help you take care of your child. They're the ones that told you it was cute to be a w***e. Do you see where I'm going with this? If someone is going to tell you to live a reckless life, they at least need to have some solutions for you when s**t don't go as planned.

You let these women hype you up and fill your head with nonsense, but when you need something SIGNIFICANT you have to turn to men. Sure, your feminist friends can transfer you 20k every so often. Sure, they can give you a pack of diapers at your 4th baby shower. But they cannot give you anything significant on a continuous basis. Men (the good ones) are responsible for their woman EVERY DAY. They protect her EVERY DAY. They make sure she has what she needs EVERY DAY.

So if you want that same thing, then you need to learn how to respect the people that provide that. Your feminist friends can't, and probably wouldn't even if they could. But they're too self absorbed to admit that they are not able to give you anything except rhetoric and minimal emotional support. I mean, emotional support is good, but most times they aren't providing you with enough of that either.

Female empowerment is about advancement. If you are being empowered to do something that doesn't advance you, then you need to turn your back on that type of empowerment. You're so busy trying to be free that you forgot you're supposed to be moving FORWARD. If you find yourself listening to women who can't get you from point A to point B, then I think it's time that you seek out women who can.💎

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19/02/2021

Advice I give to my Royal single ladies, about Men, Dating, and Marriage.

These advice is about life, dating, men, the role of men and women. Perhaps you'll find a gem you can use.

1. Do not date or get involved with a man that already has children, especially if multiple children mothers are involved. Usually, this is an indication of an irresponsible and reckless man.

2. Do not date or get involved with a man who has "daddy" or "mommy" issues. If he has a negative view about his mother, he will mistreat you, and if he has a negative view about his own father, he will be insecure and have problems with his own masculinity. These men are generally emotionally unstable and filled with rage and hatred. If his father wasn't part of his life, leave him where you met him. Let him be some other unlucky, desperate woman's problem.

3. Do not date or get involved with men your age. The best course of action is to date or be involved with a man 10-15 years older than you. That mean means that if you're 25 you should seek out men 35-40 years old. The reasons for this are too many to name and the benefits will be in your favor. Men tend to not know what it truly means to be a man until they're between 35-45 years old. That's when he becomes comfortable in his masculinity and understands his duties, expectations, and responsibilities as a man. These men should have reached the proper level of maturity, stability, and security that will be at or above your level because of your age differences. Men mature at a slower rate than women in their teens, twenties, and thirties. It's not until a man reaches his late 30's to mid 40's, that he begins to "catch up." it's a biological and sociological process.

4. Do not date or get involved with a man that expects you to pay "half" of any bills, pick up the bills on dates, or move in with him and financially contribute to his household. If a man is already paying all his bills on his own, then it is not reasonable for him to expect you to pay towards them. A man who is self-sufficient, will not expect you to pay any of his bills.

5. Do not EVER move in with a man if he hasn't put a ring on your finger and asked you to be his WIFE! A promise is a comfort to a fool, and many women are fools to give a man "husband treatment" and she isn't a wife. Why pay for the milk when you have the cow already living with you?

6. Do not date or get involved with a man that lacks principles, boundaries, vision, strength, love for self and others, respect, manly virtues, doesn't want anything out of life and allows you to walk all over him. Stay away from weak men.

7. Do not get involved with a man who is illiterate, jealous hearted, envious, insecure, not confident, constantly complains, makes excuses about everything, and is an eternal victim. Men of this stripe are no good to society, let alone a woman.

8. Do not allow a man to turn you into a "Baby Mama", so absolutely NO out of wedlock children, ever! If a man wants a child with you, then he should marry you and be able to take care of you and the child by himself, not with the help of you or the state.

9. Do not date or get involved with a man who is a known "Ike Turner", a King of The Woman Beaters. Let a man know out the gate that you have seven brothers who will stand up for you and who aren't hesitant to administer physical harm to a woman be**er. When a man knows a woman is protected by the men in her family, he thinks twice about physical violence, and if he is that type, he'll move along to a weaker prey, a woman without any protection.

10. Do not date or get involved with a man who cannot give you some "game" about life and teach you some things A man who is experienced, seasoned, and wise, is a godsend to a woman. A man understands his value as a man springs from his knowledge, wisdom, principles, masculine covering and wisdom about living and how to live good by maneuvering through the obstacle course called African life. His knowledge, wisdom and understanding should always be open to you and flow freely.

11. Do not date or get involved with a man who doesn't know how to be gentle and treat a lady. You see, it is okay for a man to be hard and without mercy in the world, but when he's home and with you, he should understand that you're his peace and you treat your peace righteously. So, a man should be able to switch from being "hard" in the world, and being sweet to you in his home. A man picks up the sword and shield when he leaves out his door to do battle, when he returns, he places the sword and shield back in the closet, the battle is over. My husband is a master of this. You will never see him mistreat me or talk crazy to me, but people in the streets....welllll.....he showed them no mercy at all. He is an Angel and a monster all at the same time. A man doesn't take his frustrations out on his woman or treats and talks to his woman like she's a man.

12. Do not date or get involved with a man who isn't willing to help you realize your dream and vision for yourself and future. Stay far away from men who are non-constructively critical of you, judgmental, self-righteous, and mean towards you. If a man puts you down and what you're trying to accomplish and build, he will be an enemy and thorn in your side. Run far, far away from this beast!

These 12 things will help you choose wisely and avoid headaches and pain and will be keys to your success in dating, and eventually getting married to the right kind of man. Like that old Oneway song goes, “If You Play Your Cards Right”…..

Also, to get to the truth of who a man really is, you have to be patient, not so quick to jump in the bed, ask penetrating questions about his childhood, parents, and life experiences. Most of all, you have to be patient with the process and not assume anything or take shortcuts. Let him tell and show you who he really is at his core. ;)

21/09/2020

I don't know who this is for but...... here's your word this afternoon......
I've never been at the same level in my life going into the next year... even the year we got married and was homeless, I ended with us having an apartment, few household items & a business with my company Longrich Bioscience etc..
If your life looks the same year after year & you're on the same level it's time to do something a bit differently...
Stop being comfortable with mediocrity, because it's a challenge to level up.
Accept the challenge.
Stop Making excuses!
Stop saying you're waiting on God when you know he's waiting on you! He's shown you every sign & you turn away from them.
& stop saying it's not about making money, if it is!! I bet if I cut you a check for N2,000,000.00 right now it'll solve 80% of your problems! (For many people not all)...
& stop hanging around "still" people when you're trying to level up! You know the ones who are STILL broke, STILL complaining, STILL borrowing, STILL making excuses, STILL hating , STILL telling people to be humble as a defense mechanism for what they lack , STILL in the same place they were in 3 years ago....
Let them GO!! I don't permit that in my circle... why?
Because, someone who has nothing to lose will help you lose everything!

Happy Sunday Loves!