28/05/2024
Wisdom Nugget for Today.
The Irony of helping the wrong people? –
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“The political trajectory in Rivers State; as a case study: Both actors are dear to me and I respect them both, but NOTE that it is Honourable to reject support or assistance from any person you cannot worship or protect his interest.”
In the same vein, it is more Honourable to keep quiet and delete a betrayal or traitor from your inner circle of friends and withdraw your support from them at the appropriate time- the Asiwaju and Ambode experience is of note.
The Irony of it all is that even the Elders/Fathers that should stand for what is right, will turn their back and support who has money and power.
In like manner, SOME of the friends, staff, or brothers that have stayed under your roof, and benefited from you are only pretending to love you but they are snakes waiting for when they feel they are strong enough to bite you.
When they do, you feel deeply hurt because you love them so much but take back your love because they don’t deserve it, treat them as enemies and be ready for them because they will never change.
Forgive them for your own sanity, and mental and spiritual stability but never get them close to you and move on, very soon they will become irrelevant and insignificant factor in your life.
They think forgiveness is their right because you are a believer but forget that confession, and repentance comes before forgiveness and acceptance.
“Forgiveness is based on repentance, if you don’t repent you don’t deserve forgiveness and acceptance” Don’t be deceived, God cannot be mocked.
You might be blood, office or classmate but NEVER GRACE mate.
Your God is bigger than their plot and jealousy.
Anybody that you supported to stand, who after standing, plots to bring you down or stand by and watch you fall or close doors to his house you supported him to build and watch the rain fall on you, is not just wicked but evil … Keep them far from you.
When a betrayal is done the first time, you can excuse it, that it is a mistake but when it is done the second time it is no longer a mistake but done for the sole purpose of destroying you, hence avoid such a traitor like a plaque.
We are of the same office, parent or friend is not an issue here; avoid the traitor because a man’s enemies are members of his household.
Even your Blood Brothers will fail you; this is more painful because it is a stab in the back, from people you never expected will abandon you.
The Irony of helping the wrong people is that when the same people see that they failed in their plot to watch you fall, they will turn around and start blackmailing you that you are the one that abandoned them, just ignore them and focus on your goal to succeed and you will succeed and your success will swallow their jealousy.
Ignore them and keep building your own house, the sky is big enough for everyone to fly. “Do not like those who do not like you, cooperation is not by force.”
Continue being nice because the people who will appreciate and support you are more than those who will betray you.
Public Notice: My Rule now is, “Don’t accept my support, gift or empowerment, if you know you will not support or protect me if you have the means; of what use is a friend, staff or brother, you helped to climb a tree, who when on the tree wants to push you down…. Holy Ghost Fire!!!
Even Jesus, expected the nine (9) that he healed to be grateful hence their healing was not made whole, for your success to be whole, you must not bite the finger that fed you.
Family: is a group of people that can hold you when you fall not watch you fall and pretend to be busy.
Your brother or friend is not those that are with you when you are up but those that are with and endeavour to lift you up when you fall.
But be assured God will NEVER ABANDON You. Seek HIM.
Our eternal gratitude to other all friends and partners who stood by us; The Alexes, the Ubongs –Chi with heart of Gold, the Dayos, the Wisdoms, The Ehis, Eje Special One, The Adedipes and a lot more we love you
We indeed love you
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Three (3) important Life Lessons:
1) Ensure that you put your trust only on God, not on friends, brothers, business or family.
2) Ensure you build your own house before supporting another to build his.
3) Ensure you start building your house Now.
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