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21/07/2018

guys pls dnt be deceived; I just found out that many of us are in a very big Relationsheep with women. it's time 4 sober reflection; u can choose to be a Sheep all ur life or u can choose to be a ship.
pls there's a difference between Dating & Mating; many of u are actually Mating instead of Dating.

17/07/2018

THE DEFEATED SHALL RISE AGAIN

Virgin standing in the rising sun
They have r***d you
Taking your virginity.
Virgin standing in the sun
You were then fertile
But now barren
Your mouth is wide
But could say nothing
Virgin standing in the sun
You were once brave
But now a coward you fear guns which terminates life.
Virgin standing in the sun when will you rise again?
Realize that guns do not kill alone
Know that ranks do not fight
Unwise multitude will crumble to wise few.
So be wise
Be determined
But prepared
Let it not be like first time.

18/04/2018

AM SO DONE!!!!
Listen, this year i am done. I refuse to
remain in a relationship with someone who
will continue to think, act and behave like
they're still single.
I don't want to keep understanding why
you can make ten Facebook posts a day but
you're too busy to call me.
I don't want to keep wondering who you're
chatting with every time you're online and
not chatting with me.
I don't want to keep assuming why you
won't chat with me if i don't send you a
message first.
I don't want to be okay with you
commenting on other people's photos while
you just like and pass mine.
I don't want to keep getting jealous of you
calling other people sweet names while you
act like we ain't nothing. Most times you
even call them the pet names you call me by
accident, shows that I mean nothing to you!
Am tired of memorizing the passwords on
your phone because you keep changing
them every week.
Am tired of wondering why you don't save
the text messages I send to you besides the
'please call me'.
Am i supposed to be worried about the
reason why am not on your speed dial? Or
why you have only one wacked photo of me
on your phone? Am i supposed to
understand why you're still besties with
your EX?
You have drained out all my energy and
patience. I am tired of covering for you
every time, I am sick of making excuses for
you in the hope that you will change, I am
tired of overlooking your flaws, I AM TIRED
of loving you and loving myself back in
return.
It doesn't matter if you used to call me
everyday for 6hours when we first started,
It doesn't matter if you used to send me text
messages every hour of the day. I cannot
keep holding on to the sweet memories of
when you used to hang around my street
for hours just to see me. I am thankful for
the love you showed me in the beginning,
but now I have come to learn that it is not
about how people start out, rather, it's
about what they continuously show on the
journey. And I refuse to let the sweet person
you ONCE WERE, be the reason i let myself to
keep getting drained and hurt by the person
you have BECOME! This year I AM DONE!
So if you want to be in a relationship with
me then be in a relationship. If you still want
to enjoy the freedom of a single person
please let me know. I want to be with
someone who will think, act and behave
committed, i want to be the focus, and that
is not too much to ask.
Who else is done with wasting their time
and settling for less this year? Go on and let
the feelings out.
Culled 4rm Igboist

15/04/2018

SEXUAL ENERGY
Probably the greatest energy available to man is not
nuclear energy or electrical energy but s*xual energy. Most
definitely the energy most wasted on earth is this s*xual
energy. It is wasted because we don’t know any better. We
don’t have any idea as to what we are losing, we call it
enjoyment and spend endless hours dreaming and plotting
on how to satisfy our s*xual urges. In the long run, we lose
a very big part of our lives – we live but we leave nothing
behind that is of worth.
Today I want to share with you an open secret. It could
make your life better if you don’t only read it but live by
what you read.
11 But He said to them, “Not all men can accept this
statement, but only those to whom it has been given. 12
“For there are eunuchs who were born that way from their
mother’s womb; and there are eunuchs who were made
eunuchs by men; and there are also eunuchs who made
themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of
heaven. He who is able to accept this, let him accept
it” (Matthew 19:11-12).
Why do men say, “life begins at 40?” Why do people say,
“behind every successful man is a woman?” If you are like
most of us, you never adduce any s*xual meanings to
these sayings. But what makes them true (or the degree of
their truth) depends on the degree of adherence to what
we share today.
I have laboured to establish from the very beginning of this
series that s*x is predominantly a mind game. That the
mind is the primary creative medium on earth, and that s*x
is the primary creative act on earth. Our s*xuality is closely
tied to our spirituality. Marrying all this together gives you a
complete picture of who you are – your capabilities on
planet earth and in line with your God-given mandate.
We have been taught to keep away from illicit s*x (pre-
marital s*x and extramarital s*x) for negative reasons – to
avoid unwanted pregnancies, scandals, STDs and such
consequences. These negative reasons are the main
culprit why we see s*x as negative. There is a higher
reason why you should practice abstinence. It is less
discussed because there are no sufficient scientific
research or proof and the bible only mentions it very
peripherally.
Never for once imagine that the reason the bible preaches
s*xual purity is for God’s sake. Never. S*x is an earthly
phenomenon. God placed barriers for your own good. And
here is why. S*xual energy is the energy to procreate on
earth. Behind every invention, every battle, every human
achievement is the issue of LOVE. It is either love for a
country, or a thing, or a person. The closer that love gets
to s*xual love, the greater the motivation behind the
achievement. The “wait-and-take” picture was invented
because a man loved his 6 year old daughter enough to find
the answer to her innocent question – Why do I have to
wait for a week before I see my picture? The windscreen
wiper, the electric saw, were invented by women who
could not bear seeing their men suffer. These inventors
used the power of s*xual energy to move ahead. What
about you?
God asks us to practice abstinence only in relationship to
our fulfilling our purpose on earth. Matt 19:11 & 1 Cor 7. It
is because s*x has the capacity to stop you from fulfilling
destiny if you don’t manage it. It’s the power and brake
combination in a car. If you increase the capacity of the
engine to speed, you must also increase the effectiveness
of the braking system. Unfortunately, our society promotes
s*x drive and jettisons s*x control. Every society without
s*x control is a savage, barbaric, uncivilised society. I do
not care the state of technology available – any society
that does not promote s*x restraint cannot live out its
fullest potential. If every time you have the desire for s*x,
you find a way of relieving that pressure then you are the
witch that has been stopping your progress in life. It
doesn’t matter whether you are married or unmarried. The
principle remains the same only the degree of severity
changes.
Why do you think all political, social, cultural or religious
movement depend on unmarried youths? Why do you think
the military encourages their men and officers to remain
unmarried for a certain period in service? Why do you think
the devil if he wants to destroy you, your ministry, your
society – promotes s*x as a free for all? The simple
answer is so that you dissipate (WASTE) your creative
energy and you will have nothing left to pursue your life
calling.
The question then is, how do I use my s*xual energy to
climb to fulfilment in life? The answer is in DeepWords
tomorrow. Ensure you have data or borrow a friend’s
phone… but be sure you don’t miss it.
I love you!
© FLO
A DeepWords Special Publication. Aleele Paago
08023620564

11/03/2018

THE WOMAN
💓💜💛💚💕
God created a woman to be
by the side of the man to help him not above neither to be under
him.
THE WOMAN was made frm the roundness of a moon and the
agility of the clinging vine. The trembling of the grass, the
slenderness of a reed and the beauty of blossoming flowers. The
lightness of leaves and the cheerfulness of the rays of sunshine. The
tears of the
clouds and the instability of the wind. The fearfulness of a rabbit
and the vanity of peacock, the softness of a bird’s bosom and the
hardness of a diamond. The sweetness of
honey and the cruelty of a tiger, the heat of a burning fire and the
chilliness of snow, the chatter of a magpie and the song of a
nightingale. The deceitfulness of a crane and the
faithfulness of a mother lion.
A WOMAN is loving but destructive, a woman is complex but
simple.
a woman could be everything and
at the same time nothing and that makes them an
interesting case study.
A woman want to be adored, appreciated, respected, wanted, loved,
cared
for, honoured, accepted.
A woman can love a man so dearly today and
hate the same man so passionately the next day. It is the
same gravity with which they love that the hate.
THE WOMEN of yesterday were more reserved and exclusive. They
knew the meaning of the word virtue and went after it. The
understood the position of the women in the family and the society.
The women of today feel that the women of yesterday were
manhandled persecuted and
bullied, archaic, outdated primitive and obedient to a fault.
The women of today are therefore demanding for
liberalization when they are not under bo***ge.
Emancipation when they are not marginalization, freedom without
being imprisoned, liberation but they are not oppressed.
Nowadays you hear, what a man can do a woman can do even
better. The world
is unnecessarily engaged in a role conflict. Conflict comes with
stress. The consequences are there for all to see; divorce, late
marriage, death, child abandonment, reduction in population (some
races are moving towards extinction)
etc.
Every woman has to be learned and each makes an interesting case
study which helps us in understanding a woman, her nature and
aspiration, the does and the don’ts of her
existence, her inexperience and wisdom, her charming and irritation,
her loving nature and distastefulness, her caring
and rejection, her domineering and carefree attitude, her
jealousy and compassion, her possessiveness and
generosity, her faithfulness and Her infedility, her determination &
weaknesses, her deep longing & hostility

21/12/2017


You can do it girl, Yes let him go and let the Lord take the LEAD .........
You are worth more than a 2am call, you are worth more than just casual s*x. You are worth more than a man who can't make his mind up. So yes girl let him go........
He only calls late at night to come over and empty his sack in you. He says let's keep it quiet because am a private person. You've never been out on a date or even met his friends let alone family. So many of y'all ladies are just late night s*x toys, why? Because you think you can change him!?
It's the end of the year, #2016 put your feet down, cry if you have to, look yourself in the mirror and say to yourself you deserve much more than this.
Your mama didn't carry you for 9 months and go through labour pains for this.
Girl pull those panties up, slam that door shut and wipe your tears, #2017 is your year. But first of all LET HIM GO and see GOD IN ACTION... 😊👏
REAL WOMEN'S ARE THE SALT OF LIFE.

10/12/2017

Set holy boundaries and maintain pentecostal distance; don't be too sure that you can handle intimacy with a woman that isn't your wife.


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30/11/2017

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15/09/2017

LADIES, THIS IS FOR YOU ALL......
"21 THINGs TO NOTE"
1. When you keep calm as a lady, you drive him cracy, keeping
him thinking that there is something
peculiar about you.
2. When he sends you abusive message,
Do not reply back with
abusive word, if you must reply. Write
"I'm sorry. Or thank
you.
3. No man likes to be talked back to. If
you must be a wife
material, just shut up. When he is calm,
talk things over.
4. Don't be arrogant, be humble.
5. Don't be carried away by your beauty.
Have you not seen
beautiful ladies that are still single till
date? Your character keep
him.
6. Do not compare him with your EX.
There are thousand of
other Ladies out there. Forget about the
past, old things have
passed away.
7. Don't always be at the receiving end,
buy him something, no
matter how little it is, whether he has
thousands of it, just buy it,
yours is unique.
8. Be industrious, men likes Ladies with
industrious mind.
9. Respect him and his family members.
10. Be a good cook. Learn how to cook something. Some Ladies
can only cook noodles.
11. Call him when you have credit, don't
be a chronic flasher.
Don't always wait for him to call.
12. Value yourself, and he will value
you.
13. Because he doesn't have today does not make him poor,
look at what drives him.
14. Look out, if he is a time waster or he is for real.
15. Where is he? In God's presence or
on the other side.
16. Can he "fight" physically and spritually for you.
17. If he stammers, when he is
introdicing you to friends and
family members. Run.
18. What you can't change in him, now
that you are dating, am
sorry in marriage you won't be able to
change it either, or you
will spend the rest of your life trying to
change him.
19. You are dating and he punches you
at every slightest
misunderstanding... Sorry, when you
marry him, your bed room
will be a "changing room" and your
sitting-room a "boxing
Ring."
20. Every little time he threatens to
break up with you. You
start crying, if you leave me I will die....
Taaaaaa. Who told you?
A better person who will value
you is coming. Relax.
21. Above all. Ask yourself! What is GOD
saying about the
Relationship?
May God open your eyes if you are
already into one, and if you are still searching May God lead you in Jesus Name!.

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Sometimes the words we leave unspoken are the most important ones that should have been said. That was one of the saddes...
07/09/2017

Sometimes the words we leave unspoken are the most important ones that should have been said. That was one of the saddest things about people.... their most important thoughts and feelings often went unspoken and barely understood. Sometimes we have so much to say, but no words comes out. And there they remain in our hearts left unsaid.
1. One day you'll be able to look back at the moments that made you cry and just smile because you'll realize that you're over it and the pain is no longer there anymore.
2. It's not worth staying with a person just because of how long you've been together. If it's not working anymore and he's not treating you right, do yourself a favor and move on before you waste more of your time and energy. Someone out there is willing to treat you better.
3. What's worse than trusting someone and getting lied to? Getting led on and building your expectations only to get disappointed in the end.
4. Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that no matter how hard you try, there are some things that are just not meant to be.
5. Time heals almost every wound .. so don't worry if the pain is still there. Keep waking up and fight it every single day and soon enough, it'll disappear and it'll no longer feel painful as it once was.
6. Ignore the comments of judgemental people because what they say about you is a reflection of who they are as a person and not you.

05/09/2017

Why do men wake up wid an er****on?????

yeah a lot of guyz hav been complaining of waking up with a hard dick..well i have good news for u
1.having an er****on early in the morning is very healthy...infact if u dont experince a morning er****on u should be very worried.....this show s u r very healthy en very normal
2.what causes this.....early morning are caused by a condition known as rapid eye movement [rem] infactevy man should experiences pontaneous er****on 4 times per night..
3.in a nut shell morning er****on are considered as a sign of healthy s*x life
got it?????

28/08/2017

LEARN TO PACKAGE!!!!

Another silent factor for favour is Packaging. Many people are not aware of the power of packaging, so they don't pay close attention to it.My dear,packaging brings acknowledging.if u want to be notice,be packaged.Don't be careless with ur looks whether as a single or married.Irrespective of ur job, be conscious of ur dress sense.Take out time to study about colour blending in clothes.A wise man said the way u dress is the way u will be addressed. Simply put, dress the way u want to be addressed.U can't look like a tout and expect to be favoured as an honourable.u can't dress like a w***e and expect noble men to propose.U can't look like a monster and expect ur husband to come back home on time.Packaging means a lot.Don't dress for the present, dress like ur future.U can't be thinking to be a great man tomorrow and ure sagging ur trouser,drinking to stupor, smoking and looking haggard with ear ring, neither do u aspire to be a queen tomorrow and ure known for mini skirts,exposed cleavages,transparent clothing and tattoos.Pls favour is attracted to decent men and women. Even job interviews selects dress code,how much more life interview.Dress well,u don't know when or where favour will want to reach out to u.Dressing differenciates people-we know mechanics,prostitutes,comedians, musicians, responsible and irresponsible people first by their dressing.Today make up your mind to look good;for looking good is a good business.Finally,never dress to impress people rather dress to express ur personality.Its an important factor for favour. Genesis 44...

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