06/03/2015
SELF WORTH
(Very Deep!!!) In a brief conversation, a man asked a
woman he was pursuing the question: 'What kind of man
are you looking for?' She sat quietly for a moment before
looking him in the eye & asking, 'Do you really want to
know?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes. She began to expound,
'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I
pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the
help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the
position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' The
man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was
referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to money. I need something
more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every
aspect of life. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, &
asked her to explain. She said, 'I need someone who is
striving for excellence mentally because I need
conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple- minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence
spiritually because I don't need to be unequally
yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for
disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence
financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need
someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me
grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing
with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea
of a strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. One
who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives
entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I
cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his
business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has
to be worthy. And by the way, I am not looking for
him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey
may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-
mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.
When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat
there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are
asking a lot. She replied, "I'm worth a lot". Send this to
every woman who's worth a lot.... and every man who has the brains to understand!!!