30/08/2024
I received a hateful comment during a live session and this is how I handled it.
Once every few weeks I host a live online inspirational session. To grow the Stage Heroes community and because I love teaching about authentic presenting.
We’re 30 minutes in when this message (in the image) pops up in the private chat.
For a moment I’m thrown off my game. I’m relieved that the chat is private so I’m the only one who can see it.
I quickly move on with my story.
But I feel like a fraud for pretending I never saw it.
About 15 minutes later, I speak about how in order to be a confident presenter, you need to accept that you can’t be for everyone.
At the same time, so many smart and inspiring people avoid being visible because they fear being criticised.
I realise I have to be transparent about the comment I received earlier.
I read the message out loud and share how it made me feel.
Having haters is good news though.
It means that you’re touching something. For every nasty comment (on a social post or during a live presentation), you’ve also positively impacted many others.
I celebrate each of them.
As strange as it may sound, I send them love.
Someone who goes out of their way to criticise another person must be criticising themselves even harder. That must be tough and so I wish for their lives to become easier.
I later learned that the person who left this comment was present for 4 minutes out of a 90-minute session.
Know that when someone leaves a mean comment, it’s usually based on very little :)
How do you handle hecklers, haters, critics?