15/07/2018
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Personal growth has many faces. There are 2 critical mechanisms that allow us to accelerate growth, and are always part of how we learn: Feedback and Self-Reflection.
A third one is even stronger, but not easy to apply: sharing the mistakes we make and the learning from it. Once we reach a certain trust level in the team we work, or with individuals we work with, sharing becomes an option.
But it’s not only trust, the other big step (for some of us) is to step over our ego, make ourselves volatile and admit a mistake.
Once you do, and I hope you experiment with this, the magic starts. People you shared with trust you even more. They also see your sharing as an invitation to also share some of their mistakes. And above all, more people reflect from their own perspective, knowledge and experience on the mistakes shared, resulting is in more solutions/learning than any personal feedback or self-reflection could have generated. More people, at the same time, learn from eachother, just by sharing a mistake.
Faster learning, deeper learning, connecting with people, building relationships and boosting trust!
Try it: share a mistake.
Leaders can facilitate the use of this great learning process by simply be the example and go first with sharing a mistake.
In organisations, this is one of the great accelerators of people wanting to start working more agile.
But above all, people feel more complete and engaged, more involved, they feel seen and heard and can act without fear. What a great place to be. Purpose and Performance are the result!
Just remember: there is success and there is learning. Nothing else!