Felice Bakker

Felice Bakker is an intuitive writer who not only creates beautiful stationary, she also creates custom lifestyle products for coaches.

21/04/2026

Our first holiday. Just us. Paid by me.
These last few years broke me financially. I’m only now in a place where extras are possible again.
It’s not extravagant. It’s not abroad. But it sure does feel like a milestone. 🦙
Anyone else celebrating the small ones? 👇
Follow along for honest conversations about life, motherhood and figuring it out as you go.

22/03/2026

tape fights are a hard no for me. (a game my 5 year old invented that involves smacking each other with rolls of tape 😆)

play fighting at home. the pushing. the fake wrestling. honestly? i don’t love it.

I flinch. I feel triggered.

but i know he needs an outlet for that energy. he craves it. he asks for it. and as his one parent most of the year, that’s on me.

so instead of forcing something that doesn’t feel right for either of us, i got intentional about finding what does.

soccer outside is one of my favourite. fresh air. running. being rough in a way that feels natural. learning skills. a bit of competition. bringing all that five year old energy somewhere it can actually go.

i can’t give him everything. but i can give him this.

that feels like enough for today.

what have you found that works for both of you? 👇

18/03/2026

Closed the laptop. Booked the massage. Zero regrets. 💆‍♀️

27/02/2026

back “home” to the Netherlands after 30 years abroad. 🇳🇱
was it the plan? not exactly.
is it forever? ask me in a year.
is it home? still figuring that out.
but for now — here we are. 🌷
where are you calling home these days? 👇

27/02/2026

i used to fill the silence with a kinder story.
people are busy. life gets in the way. everyone is doing their best.
and maybe that’s all true.
but i’ve been sitting with something i can’t unfeel anymore — people will show you if they care. you just have to be able to see it and be ok with it. and that can hurt.
i turned that same lens on myself. and where i spend my time told me exactly who matters to me. not who i think matters to me. not who i say matters to me. who actually does. for those, i show up.
that was uncomfortable to look at. because i too make that decision. some matter and some don’t.
moving back home after a lifetime abroad taught me how to read the silence. not with bitterness — just with clarity. the invitations that didn’t come told me as much as the ones that did.
i’ve learnt to be ok with it. trusting that the space will be filled with the right people. mutual connections. people that care about me and who i care about as well.
people make time for what they prioritise. always. yay or nay? 👇
follow along for honest conversations about life, belonging and the things we don’t say out loud.

24/02/2026

S*x is biology.
Gender is self-representation, influenced by social, cultural and personal experiences.

A fetus is unable to choose its gender.

They are not the same thing.

I used to work in child protection and gender, on issues such as child marriage and FGM, and this distinction has always stayed with me.

An ultrasound shows anatomy.
It doesn’t show identity or expression.

So technically, it’s a s*x reveal, not a gender reveal.

Maybe we don’t use that language because of the act itself —
but it’s still incorrect.

Just something that gets me.
Anyone else? 😅

Adres

Rotterdam

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