Krysalis AS. Senter for systemiske konstellasjoner. Utvikling & veiledning

16/07/2023

Godt sagt!

15/07/2023

Kjære alle venner. Siden min kjære mann Calle ble syk og døde er ble det ingen tid eller energi for meg å tilby konstellasjoner. Jeg har derfor lagt ned Krysalis AS.
Takk for godt samarbeid med alle dere jeg har jobbet med i disse årene, det har vært utrolig givende🙏💖💖

02/08/2021

30/07/2021

So hauntingly true....except that sometimes memories pops up like either confusing or crystal clear flashbacks.

06/05/2021

Denne traff!

When you neglect your own welfare in seeking the welfare of the children, you leave the children a bad inheritance, a very bad impression of the past. If you torture yourself in order to produce something for the children, you give them the picture of a tortured life.
Therefore away with all that.
If you are always preparing for the happiness of the children, you don't know how to look after your own happiness, nor do the children learn how to look after theirs. They in turn may go on to prepare for the happiness of your grandchildren, and the grandchildren for the great-grandchildren, and so happiness is always somewhere in the future.
You think happiness is something to be attained in the future, that you cannot attain it, but your children will have it. So you fill your life with ambitions for that kingdom to come and it never does. Every generation is doing something towards it. They all torture themselves in order that the children shall attain it, but the children grow up and are the same fools we are.
Try to make it here and now, for yourself. That is good teaching. Then the children will try to make it here and now for themselves - then it can come into the real world. Don't be unnatural and seek happiness in the next generations. If you are too concerned about your children and grandchildren, you simply burden them with the debts you have contracted. While if you contract no debts, if you live simply and make yourselves as happy as possible, you leave the best of conditions to your children. At all events, you leave a good example of how to take care of themselves. If the parents can take care of themselves, the children will also. They will not be looking for the happiness of the grandchildren, but will do what is necessary to have a reasonable amount of happiness themselves.

C. G. Jung - Seminar on Nietzsche's Zarathustra

Photograph: Jung with children and grandchildren

23/10/2020

In recent years, mounting evidence has backed up the profound idea that the legacy of trauma in childhood can be passed down to people's offspring, even af

21/09/2020

Barnet ditt søker ikke oppmerksomhet fra deg, men TILKNYTNING til deg ❤️

Et barn er helt avhengig av å knytte gode bånd til sine nærmeste. Slik lærer det å bli trygg på seg selv, og til å stole på andre mennesker.

Når dette båndet føles sterkt og godt for barnet, tør det også etterhvert å utforske verden rundt seg. Men i hele barndommen vil barnet veksle mellom den trygge gode favnen, og nye utfordrende opplevelser.

Trygg tilknytning gir positiv utvikling ❤️

~ Trygge Barn ~

09/09/2020