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So Extra Come home to yourself šŸ„°
You were never ā€œtoo muchā€
Heal your self worth. Take up space. Love your lifeāœØ
āœˆļø DSL IS NOW BOARDINGšŸ‘‡šŸ½

26/08/2026

SHAME says ā€œI need to lose weight so I can finally love myselfā€

SELF RESPECT says ā€œI care about my body, so I want to look after itā€

SHAME says ā€œI need to be successful so people will see my worthā€

SELF RESPECT says ā€œI know my worth, and I want to create a successful life because it matters to meā€

SHAME says ā€œIā€™ll finally be happy when I achieve thisā€

SELF RESPECT says ā€œIā€™m proud of where I am and I want moreā€

The outside looks exactly the same.

You can still lose the weight. Build the business. Make the money. Get the dream job. Become the version of yourself youā€™ve always wanted to be.

But the energy behind it changes everythingggggāœØ

Youā€™re no longer trying to become worthy.

Youā€™re making choices from the belief that you already are šŸ§”

Thatā€™s the difference between changing yourself because you hate who you areā€¦ and growing because you respect who you are šŸ’„

New poddy out now! Search ā€œLife Lessons with Leeshā€ wherever you listen šŸŽ§šŸ”„

25/08/2026

Man! How cool! šŸ„¹šŸ„° My first ever magazine feature and itā€™s in Woman's Day!! šŸ˜­šŸ«¶šŸ½

Thank you to Kylie, Nicola and the Woman's Day team for sharing my story, my journey and the work Iā€™m so deeply passionate about šŸ„°

It means so much to have the opportunity to share where Iā€™ve come from, what Iā€™ve learned along the way and why this work matters so deeply to me šŸ„°

My story hasnā€™t always been pretty. Iā€™ve had some really low moments, made mistakes, lost myself and had to completely rebuild my life. But those moments ultimately led me here šŸ˜ to a life Iā€™m so grateful for and to work that allows me to help other women remember who they are and how worthy they truly are.

My hope is that this story reaches the right woman at the right time and reminds her that where she is right now doesnā€™t have to be where she stays šŸ§”

If you want to read my story, this weekā€™s issue is out now! You can grab a copy from your local supermarket or newsagent šŸ—žļø

And if you grab one, send me a pic because I will absolutely lose my mind seeing you with it!! šŸ˜‚šŸ„¹šŸ«¶šŸ½

Gorgeous main photo from Brand & Event Melbourne Photographer, Gracie

24/08/2026

If youā€™ve ever been told youā€™re ā€œtoo muchā€, this is your safe space šŸ«¶šŸ½

24/08/2026

Before you learned to compare your body.

Before you started measuring your worth by your achievements.

Before you thought you had to be smaller, prettier, more successful, more productive or more ā€œtogetherā€ to deserve love.

Before you learned to abandon yourself to keep everyone else happy.

That girl is still in there šŸ„°

She just got buried under years of expectations, conditioning, comparison and self doubt.

And thatā€™s what ā€œDestination Self Loveā€ is about šŸ„°

Itā€™s about coming HOME to yourself šŸ„°

Remembering your worth.

Rebuilding your relationship with yourself.

Reclaiming your confidence.

And learning to live from a place of ā€œI am enoughā€ rather than constantly trying to prove that you are!

DM me ā€œDSLā€ šŸ«¶šŸ½

23/08/2026

My love, DSL is OPEN FOR BOARDING! āœˆļøšŸ§”

& not to another destination outside of youā€¦but back to YOUUUUUUā£ļø

Back to the woman underneath the self doubt, the comparison, the people pleasing, the pressure and the belief that you need to become someone else to finally feel worthy.

Destination Self Love is your journey toā€¦

šŸ„° Heal your relationship with your body
šŸ„° Reclaim your confidence
šŸ„° Remember your worth
šŸ„° Come home to yourself
šŸ„° Create a life you no longer feel the need to escape from

Soā€¦ you coming?

LFG!!āœˆļøšŸ”„šŸ”„

Comment or DM ā€œDSLā€ and Iā€™ll send you the details šŸŽ« šŸ«¶šŸ½

22/08/2026

So grateful that I get to do this mahi šŸ„°

This seems to be the takeaway from the class - ā€œItā€™s hard to take action if you donā€™t think youā€™re worthy of the resultsā€

22/08/2026

Iā€™ve been thinking about the difference between being proactive vs reactive with yourselfā€¦

Because I reckon a LOT of us are really good at being reactive.

You wait until youā€™re exhausted to rest. Until youā€™re resentful to set the boundary. Until youā€™re overwhelmed to ask for help. Until youā€™re completely disconnected from yourself to finally go, ā€œWaitā€¦ how am I actually doing?ā€

And I get it.

Life gets busy. Shxt happens. Sometimes youā€™re genuinely just trying to get through the week.

But thereā€™s something really powerful about learning to check in with yourself BEFORE you get to that point.

Likeā€¦

ā€œWhat am I actually feeling?ā€

ā€œWhat do I need?ā€

ā€œWhat do I want?ā€

ā€œIs something feeling off?ā€

ā€œWhat have I been saying yes to that I actually donā€™t want to?ā€

And then actually listening to the answer šŸ„¹

Because if you want a different experience of your life, you have to start choosing differently.

You donā€™t have to wait until youā€™re burnt out, until youā€™re resentful, until your body is screaming at you to slow down.

You can start checking in nowā£ļø

And honestly, THAT is a huge part of what I mean when I talk about coming home to yourself šŸ„°

Getting really fxcking good at hearing yourself, trusting yourself and choosing yourself.

And if youā€™re reading this thinkingā€¦

ā€œOkayyyy Leesh, I think I need to work on thisā€

Thatā€™s literally the work we do inside ā€œDestination Self Loveā€šŸ§”āœˆļø

DM me ā€œDSLā€ to come join us.

LFGGGG šŸ”„

Brb crying šŸ„¹No fr this is the reason I do what I do šŸ„°
21/08/2026

Brb crying šŸ„¹

No fr this is the reason I do what I do šŸ„°

Have you ever finally gotten the thing you hustled SO hard forā€¦ the thing you dreamed about, worked towards, prayed forā€¦...
20/08/2026

Have you ever finally gotten the thing you hustled SO hard forā€¦ the thing you dreamed about, worked towards, prayed forā€¦

ā€¦and then felt meh? šŸ«¤

You thought this would finally make you happy, right?

The award.
The money.
The body.
The relationship.
The validation.
The achievement.

But nope.

And you wonder, ā€œWhy donā€™t I feel how I thought I would?ā€

Because happiness isnā€™t sustainable when it relies on things outside of youā£ļø

When your happiness depends on how you look, what you achieve, who approves of you or what you haveā€¦

youā€™re always going to need the next thing to feel good again.

Secure happiness is different šŸ„°

It comes from within youā£ļø

And THAT is the work.

Learning how to feel enough, worthy and at peace whilst achieving incredible things šŸ„°

You deserve to build a beautiful life without needing that life to prove your worth šŸ§”

If youā€™re ready to stop chasing ā€œenoughā€ and start truly coming home to yourselfā€¦

Thatā€™s exactly what we do inside ā€œDestination Self Loveā€ šŸ„¹šŸ§”

Come join us āœˆļø DM ME ā€œDSLā€

19/08/2026

What if the reason you still donā€™t feel ā€œthereā€ yet is because you keep looking for the answer somewhere else? āœˆļø

You think ā€œIā€™ll feel confident when I lose the weightā€

ā€œIā€™ll finally love myself when I find the love of my lifeā€

ā€œI just need to get my life togetherā€

ā€œOnce I have more money, Iā€™ll be happyā€

ā€œMaybe I just need a fresh startā€

So you keep chasing the next thing.

The next body. The next goal. The next relationship. The next achievement. The next destination.

And for a little while, it feels like youā€™re getting closer but somehow, you still donā€™t feel at home within yourself šŸ’”

Because you can change your circumstances without changing the way you see yourself.

You can fly to the other side of the world and still take your insecurities with you.

You can lose the weight and still pick yourself apart.

You can achieve the thing and still wonder if youā€™re enough.

You can build an incredible life and still feel like youā€™re waiting for permission to actually enjoy it.

What if the destination youā€™ve been searching for isnā€™t somewhere you need to get to?

What if itā€™s coming home to you? šŸ„¹šŸ§”

Thatā€™s what ā€œDestination Self Loveā€ is about.

Itā€™s learning how to feel safe being YOU, trust yourself, honour yourself and genuinely believe that you are worthy of a beautiful life right now!

Dm me ā€œDSLā€ šŸ§”

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