25/08/2026
Sunday I received some news. News I was kind of expecting, but I don’t think you ever really know how to prepare yourself for something like this.
I’ve spent today reflecting on all the memories. The good, the bad, the ugly, the laughs, and of course, our cheeky lunch meetings at Josy’s. Now every time I order the duck risotto, I know I’ll think of you.
Sometimes people come into your life because you need a wake-up call, someone to believe in you, or that extra push to go further. You were that person for me.
I’ll never forget being in Christchurch, sitting in an Uber on my way to my next hui, when I got a call from HR telling me I was going to be the Manager of Education. I didn’t accept the role straight away because I needed to talk to you first. When I called you, before I could even say much, the first thing you said was, “Congratulations.” Then you told me you had put my name forward for it.
You believed in me before I had even fully believed in myself.
You taught me how to build my team, and I wish I could rewind time so we could interview all our Poly and Māori friends and build the best POC team ever.
Our last conversation will live rent-free in my mind forever. Just last week while I was driving to the PwC Tower for a hui with one of our clients, you reminded me that I am great. You reminded me that whatever doubt I had because of the people around me was just noise. That I wouldn’t be in the position I’m in if I wasn’t good at what I do.
I’ll carry those words with me.
And my favourite growling will forever be when I turned up to one of our law firms in a hoodie to present their accreditation certificate and you looked at me and said:
“Lance, you’re not a SW anymore.” 😂
Thank you for everything. For the kai we shared. For picking my nail colour before I went down to perform in RENT. For being the most lenient boss 😂. For the growlings, the laughs, the advice, the opportunities, the belief you had in me, and most importantly, for being my friend.
I’m so grateful our paths crossed.
Moe mai rā. Rest peacefully. ❤️🕊️
Forever in my heart.