17/06/2026
Many of my clients have spent years or more feeling lonely and alone in their own relationships.
Some described themselves as feeling like they’re ‘starving or even dying inside’.
They’ve been emotionally starved.
Here’s the thing that most don’t realise:
Feeling like this didn’t start in their relationship or marriage - it started when they were a child.
They will have had a parent who was emotionally unavailable, shut down or absent - and now, they have a partner or spouse who feels the same.
Both parties have a deep abandonment wound - but they show up differently. One often craves connection and emotional intimacy - while the other avoids connection and emotional intimacy.
They both trigger each other.
The difficult truth is that everything else can work really well...but if the depth of emotional connection and intimacy isn’t there, you can share a life together - and still feel utterly alone.
It doesn’t have to be this way, if you’re both willing this is possible:
▷ Where there was once distance - you feel more connected than you ever have.
▷ Where you once coexisted - you now *want* to share more of yourself with each other
▷ Where you once felt lonely, you finally feel seen, heard and understood.
▷ Where there was once silence and shut down - there’s now curiosity.
It’s almost like exploring a new relationship as you discover each other in ways you never have before.
This is work we do inside my 3 Month Private Program.
Feel free to message me directly if you’d like to discuss your situation and best way forward.
Much love,
Jen 🩷