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The Lighthouse Performance Consultant, Executive and Life Coaching, NLP and Deep State Re-patterning Practitioner Coaching is about change and transformation.

It is about helping you become the very best you can be. "Dream the dream and create your amazing future"
If you really want to make changes in your personal and professional life, then, with your commitment, we will work together to make it happen. EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE.

Communication, respect, love.A great article for men and women. You are in a partnership ๐Ÿ’
05/08/2025

Communication, respect, love.
A great article for men and women. You are in a partnership ๐Ÿ’

A man's true character is revealed in his anger, not in calm moments. Sweet words are meaningless if kindness disappears when he's upset. Real love endures under pressure, remaining patient, protective, and compassionate, even when hurt.

If he truly cares, he'll choose his words carefully, even in anger. He may need space, but he won't use silence, insults, or manipulation as a weapon. Love isn't about causing emotional harm or controlling through guilt or anger.

There's no excuse for using anger to hurt someone you love. Love should be a safe haven, not a minefield. A real man prioritizes his partner's heart, especially when he's hurt. He seeks to repair and communicate, not destroy.

Pay attention to how he acts after a conflict. Does he work towards healing or feed his pride? If disagreements turn love into venom, that's not love โ€“ that's control. You deserve open communication, respect, and kindness, not emotional destruction.

His anger reflects his character and choices. Trust what you see, not just what he says. True love is about mutual respect, empathy, and care โ€“ not about wielding power or causing pain.

~ ๐“™๐“ธ๐“พ๐“ป๐“ท๐“ฎ๐”‚ ๐“ธ๐“ฏ ๐“›๐“ฒ๐“ฏ๐“ฎ

Words of comfort to say when there are โ€œno wordsโ€
15/07/2025

Words of comfort to say when there are โ€œno wordsโ€

Instead of saying, "I know what it feels like", let's say
"I cannot imagine your heartbreak".

Instead of saying, "You're strong, you'll get through this, let's say " You'll hurt, and I'll be here.

Instead of saying, "You look like you're doing well, Let's say, "How are you holding up today?"

Instead of saying, "Healing takes time", let's say "Healing has no timeline".

Instead of saying, "Everything happens for a reason, let's say "This must feel so terribly senseless right now".

And when there are no words to say at all, you don't need to try and find some. Love speaks in silences too.
๐‘ˆ๐‘™๐‘™๐‘–๐‘’ ๐พ๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ๐‘’
Aส€แด› - Kurti Andrea
๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘‘๐‘–๐‘๐‘–๐‘ก๐‘ฆ ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘Ÿ

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Happy New Year. Let 2025 be one in which you are not held back from achieving because of limiting beliefs.
01/01/2025

Happy New Year.
Let 2025 be one in which you are not held back from achieving because of limiting beliefs.

Before speaking ask yourself 3 things.1. Is it true?2. Is it kind?3. Is it necessary?
01/02/2024

Before speaking ask yourself 3 things.
1. Is it true?
2. Is it kind?
3. Is it necessary?

Mental Health week - EMPATHYMake every week mental health week ๐Ÿ’›๐ŸŒผCredit: tinybudda.com
21/09/2023

Mental Health week - EMPATHY
Make every week mental health week ๐Ÿ’›๐ŸŒผ

Credit: tinybudda.com

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