18/03/2021
Influencing with Authority? 3 simple reminders to get better results.
If you're trying to influence those around you, using Authority usually isn't the best strategy. Why? Because people tend to resent being told what to do! They may feel coerced and this often impacts the outcome, not to mention your relationship with them.
But some people, in some roles, need to use Authority all the time. This week, for instance, I've been coaching a team of Personal Trainers, who use their implied authority as trusted experts all the time with their clients, instructing them from one exercise to another.
The way to use Authority effectively is to remember 3 simple things:
1. Ask nicely! There’s no reason to be dictatorial. Be pleasant, friendly and use the right tone.
2. Give a good reason. Justify your request by explaining why it needs to be done (and, if possible why it’s in his/her or everybody’s interests).
3. Acknowledge any concerns you think they may have. This shows empathy and understanding. You may even be able to mitigate them.
It's not hard to be nice whilst using Authority!