23/05/2026
Your Baby, Your Boundaries 🤍
One of the things I hear from mamas often is the worry about setting boundaries when their baby arrives.
Can I gently remind you of something beautiful?
You do not need permission to protect your baby. 🤍
You carried that precious little one for months. You learnt their movements, whispered to them, worried about them, loved them before anyone else had even met them.
So if you ask people to wash their hands, wait until they are well before visiting, or hand baby back when they need their mama, you are not being difficult.
You are being a parent.
Newborn babies do not need to be passed around so you feel you have to keep everyone happy. They need love, safety, comfort, and the familiar arms that help them feel secure in this big beautiful new world.
The people who truly love you and your baby will understand that these boundaries are not walls. They are acts of love.
Mama, trust your instincts.
You know your baby better than anyone else.
It is okay to say yes.
It is okay to say no.
It is okay to change your mind.
And it is okay to put your baby’s needs before the expectations of others.
Because protecting your little one is never something you need to apologise for.🤍
Much love always
Vicki K 🤍