14/10/2017
There are so many things going around and around in my head when I get asked for advice by worried young mums.
So........ let me start ...... PLEASE Lyndsay , how do I get my baby to sleep,
This would be the most asked question by new and not so new mums.
Yes -you can have a baby who will learn how to self settle. By that I mean your baby has had a good feed -either at the breast or from a bottle or a bit of both!
Let me say right here -if you do a bit of both its all OK and there is no such thing as ni**le confusion ..... in fact I encourage new mums to give their baby a bottle - either expressed breast milk or formula -n
from very early on.
2 reasons why. It gives the dad a chance to step in and give his baby a bottle, holding his baby close and loving the experience. Secondly - when you -maybe -go back
to work, your baby is happy taking a bottle -no drama.
Now, back back to making sure your baby has a good feed, winding -a cuddle and then check the nappy - wrap the baby firmly -another cuddle and then into bed.
For the first month a baby is not up and about for very long. An overtired baby - he has been up for too long - is very difficult to settle so don't let your new baby get to this stage.
So wrap your baby firmly -tuck him/her down in his in crib, cover with enough blankets to keep warm but not hot.
If the baby has had a good feed and not just a snack -8 - 10 mins. each side - he may have a little cry. Oh! - by the way -you have pulled the door to - and gone away to have have a big glass of water -good for your milk supply.
If your baby cries for more than 5 mins. go under to his room , pick him up as he may have wind. Hold him over your shoulder for a few minutes -but don't take him out if his room. This is sleep time and if you follow this routine, quite quickly you will have a baby who goes to sleep all by himself.
After a few minutes over your shoulder he may burp -if not go through the wrapping and tucking down routine again but just after a quick check of his nappy.
Tuck down again and leave the room.
You must keep doing this until your baby goes off to sleep and - yes - its will happen. You must get into this routine - feed - wrap - and tucking down.
Your darling baby will quickly learn to self settle and you will be the happiest mum in your street , if not your city.
In my book 'Baby on Board - Mum is Driving' all the information is there.
Go to www.lyndsaymorgan.co.nz to read some amazing testimonials and then buy my book.
It will be the best $25 you will spend and if you follow the rules you will have a wonderful baby who self settles, gets into a routine and knows that who us the boss and it's not him!!!!
Watch for the next most asked question and my reply.
Lyndsay’s education started at a small country school, Te Horo Primary School, followed by education in Shannon, Levin and three years in St Mary’s Diocesan School in Stratford, Taranaki.Her infant-care career began in 1959 when she trained at a Karitane Hospital in Wanganui – which at the time was…