05/08/2026
A new Bill before Parliament is asking New Zealanders an important question:
If you knew a child was being abused would you recognise it and would you know what to do?
The proposed Crimes (Offence of Failing to Report Child Harm) Bill seeks to make it a criminal offence to knowingly fail to report child abuse. It has reignited an important national conversation about our responsibility to protect children. https://www.legislation.govt.nz/bill/members/2026/335/en/latest/?utm_source=chatgpt.com
But before we can report abuse…We have to recognise it.
Many people believe child abuse is obvious. Sadly, it often isn’t.
One of the most misunderstood forms of child abuse is Child Sexual Exploitation (CSE).
It isn’t always a stranger in a van.
It can be an older boyfriend.
A sports coach.
Someone online.
A trusted family friend.
A person offering gifts, money, alcohol, drugs, accommodation, transport or simply the attention and acceptance a vulnerable young person is desperately seeking.
The grooming can happen over weeks, months or even years. Victims frequently don’t recognise they are being abused and neither do the adults around them.
Child Sexual Exploitation is child abuse.
It is happening today in communities throughout Aotearoa New Zealand.
This new Bill reminds us that protecting children isn’t just about reporting abuse—it’s about recognising it before more harm occurs.
Forewarned is forearmed.
At See the Signs (STS) we equip parents, teachers, health professionals, sports clubs, faith communities, youth organisations and anyone working with children to recognise the warning signs of grooming, child sexual exploitation and other forms of abuse.
Because safeguarding starts long before a report is made.
It starts with education.
It starts with recognising the signs.
If your organisation would like practical, evidence-based safeguarding or Child Sexual Exploitation training, we’d love to work with you.
Together, we can build communities that recognise abuse earlier, respond confidently, and better protect our tamariki.
Recognise the Signs. Protect the Child.
Ngā mihi,
Tina Budd
Founder & Director
See the Signs Child Safeguarding Consultancy Ltd
📞 021 088 13571
🌐 www.seethesigns.co.nz
Helping New Zealand recognise the signs, respond appropriately and safeguard vulnerable children and young people.
With 22 years of policing experience, Tina brings powerful lived expertise from specialist units focused on family harm, vulnerable adults, child abuse, missing children and child sexual exploitation & trafficking