18/09/2026
You point out his mistake.
Suddenly, “Meri ghalti hai ab?”
You try to explain what actually happened.
He brings up everything he has ever done for you.
You try to stay on the original issue.
He makes you feel disrespectful, ungrateful, or unreasonable.
And somehow, you end up defending yourself instead of him answering for what he did.
This is one of the manipulation patterns that can occur when strong narcissistic traits are present: blame shifting, defensiveness, victim positioning and avoiding accountability.