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Tariqaziz hoza, Bunju (2026)

03/05/2026

Falling in love helps to stabilise the personalities of people who are neurotic. Love helps people who think pessimistically to approach life with more confidence and see events in a more positive light.

Bradha Tariq

08/04/2026

SIGNS THATVYOU ARE SOMEBADY SECOND CHOICE

1. They take a long time to respond to your messages

If your partner takes ages to respond to your texts, even if they initiated the conversation, it could be a sign they're not prioritizing you. They may post on social media but still not get back to you, showing they've seen your message but are choosing not to reply right away

2. They make last-minute plans with you

When someone sees you as a second choice, they'll often invite you over very late in the day. If you try to make plans in advance, they may say they're not sure if they'll be free, keeping their options open in case a "better" opportunity comes along

3. They show up late and don't respect your time

If your partner consistently shows up late, it demonstrates a lack of respect for your time. They do whatever they want without considering your feelings.

4. They still have dating apps on their phone

If your partner still has dating apps downloaded, even if they claim not to use them, it's a red flag. They could easily delete the apps if they were truly committed to you.

5. They only want you for physical intimacy

When someone sees you as a second choice, they may enjoy the physical aspects of your relationship but aren't interested in emotional intimacy or sharing deep secrets about their life. They're only interested in your body.

6. They frequently cancel plans

If your partner often gets you excited about seeing them, only to let you down at the last minute, it's a sign they don't prioritize you. They wait until the last second to cancel, when you're already ready to go out.

7. You're the only one putting in effort

If you initiate almost every conversation, hangout, or hug, while they only initiate s*x, it suggests an imbalance in the relationship. You're doing most of the work to keep the relationship going.

Remember, you deserve to be someone's first choice. If these signs resonate with you, it may be time to have an honest conversation with your partner about your needs and expectations in the relationship

Tariqaziz Ernest isiaka Ramadan Hoza

13/03/2026

, it is very difficult to draw the boundary between love and friendship. Sometimes friendship deepens into love over the years. Some people say that love is a long-term friendship. Personally, I believe that love is a deep form of friendship. As an evidence, friendship often ends in love, but love ending in friendship almost never happens. Anyway, both of these relationships are helpful to us. We must be sincere and faithful, whether it is in love or friendship. It is also a great energizer for us to live and motivates us to do something. When I'm sad, my friends and lover are likewise sad and when I'm happy, they become happy as well. In my opinion, friends or lover can be considered as a second version of ourselves.

Bradha Tariq

12/03/2026

Talk openly about everything, especially the stuff that hurts
If something bothers you in the relationship, you must be willing to say it. Saying it builds trust and trust builds intimacy. It may hurt, but you still need to do it. No one else can fix your relationship for you. Nor should anyone else. Just as causing pain to your muscles allows them to grow back stronger, often introducing some pain into your relationship through vulnerability is the only way to make the relationship stronger.
There can be no secrets. Secrets divide you. Always.

Mtu wa mungu
Mwisho mwema ndio mazingatio yetu

Tariqaziz isiaka Ramadhan Hoza

02/12/2025

How Men Express Love

The way men express love is very different from the way women express it.

"When a girl goes out with her male partner, a real man works hard and tries to make his woman feel safe.
If he has made you believe that you are protected with him — that you can speak anything with him — that psychological safety and peace he brings is priceless.
When you are out with him, if you feel, 'If he is there with me, nothing will happen,' that is his love language.
He works hard to show you that you are safe and protected.
If he has made you believe this, it means you can say anything, act like a child, do silly things with him — and he will handle it and sort things out.
When he sorts those things out, that is his way of expressing love.
That psychological safety, that feeling that other men may hurt you but he won’t — it only exists because he has worked to create it.
If he has made you feel, 'When I am with him, nothing will happen,' it means he has worked for it and expressed his love through it."
Tariqaziz Ernest isiaka Hoza

26/11/2025

Love Begins Where Fantasy Ends
First, you fall in love with a dream. You think they are perfect.

Then, you see the real person. They have flaws. This is when the dream ends.

This is where real love can start.

Real love isn't just a feeling. It's a choice. You choose to love the real person, not the perfect dream.

Fantasy is easy. Real love is a choice you make every day.
Tariqaziz Ernest Hoza

18/11/2025

HARSH TRUTHS ABOUT LIFE WE REALIZE TOO LATE

Ever had one of those nights when you just stare at the ceiling, thinking, damn, nobody told me it would be like this? Life doesn’t slap you all at once; it teaches quietly, almost politely, until one day the truth hits you so hard you forget how you ever believed otherwise.

These aren’t the feel-good lessons. These are the ones that change how you see everything.

1. GOOD PEOPLE DON’T ALWAYS WIN ✍🏼

We grew up thinking kindness guarantees reward. But life doesn’t operate on fairness, it runs on advantage.

The kindest often get used, while the ruthless climb ladders they didn’t even build.

Be good, yes, but be sharp enough to know when goodness becomes self-sabotage.

2. TIME IS THE MOST EXPENSIVE CURRENCY ✍🏼

You think you have plenty, until you don’t. People chase money, success, love… but all of it collapses when time runs out.

Spend it like gold, not gossip. Because you can always make more cash, but never another hour.

3. PEOPLE LOVE THE IDEA OF YOU, NOT YOU ✍🏼

They love your energy, your presence, your usefulness, but not always your truth. The moment you stop giving them what they want, the affection fades.

That’s when you learn, connection isn’t love; it’s often just convenience, don’t you think?

4. SUCCESS DOESN’T FEEL LIKE YOU IMAGINED ✍🏼

You think reaching the top will fix the emptiness inside. But when you finally get there, it’s just quieter.

The silence feels heavier. Success gives you more, of everything, including loneliness.

5. NOT EVERYONE DESERVES A SECOND CHANCE ✍🏼

Forgiveness is noble, but repeated forgiveness is self-betrayal. Some people don’t change, they just get better at pretending.

Cut them off before they teach you the same lesson twice.

6. LIFE IS MOSTLY ABOUT LOSS ✍🏼

You lose people, chances, versions of yourself. And every loss rearranges who you are.

It’s not tragedy, it’s transformation. Growth is just pain in disguise, waiting for you to make peace with it.

7. YOUR PARENTS WERE JUST GUESSING TOO ✍🏼

You grow up thinking adults have it all figured out. Then you become one and realize, no one ever really knows what they’re doing.

Tariqaziz Ernest Hoza

12/11/2025

GIRLS, WAIT FOR THE RIGHT GUY FOR YOU

Choose the man who holds your hand when you're scared to calm you down

Choose the man who is willing to spend his time with you in times that you are sad

Choose the man who doesn't only look at your beauty, the one who loves who you really are and accepts you

Choose the man who himself plans for the good future of the two of you

Choose the man that even if you are not yet settled, you are still the most beautiful woman in his eyes

Choose the man who will do everything just to see you but in the right way not to put you in trouble

Choose the man who wants to see you happy and smiling all the time

Choose the man who will not blame you for all the issues and problems

Choose a man who will introduce you to everyone and not embarrass you

Choose a man who will love and respect you just like how he respects his sister and mama

Choose the man who loves you more than you love him, because he can take care of you better

CHOOSE THE BEST FOR YOU, KNOW YOUR WORTH AND WHAT YOU DESERVE.

And if you already find him

Be the Right woman For him.
Tariqaziz Ernest Hoza

21/10/2025

When you breakup two things might happen
FIRST:

They might try hard to win you back. They’ll contact you, show that they care, and want to fix things because they love you and don’t want to lose you.

SECOND:

They might just fade away. This usually means they were waiting for you to end things. They might already have someone else in mind, so they aren’t trying to keep you close.

So what should you do?

Let them go. Give them time to think about what they really want. Don’t chase after someone who isn’t choosing you.

If they can live without you, then you know: they don’t really love you. They were with you because they needed you, but now, you’re just not important to them anymore.

Don’t spend your time on someone who won’t fight for you.
Tariqaziz Ernest isiaka Ramadan Hoza

12/10/2025

𝗛𝗢𝗪 𝗧𝗢 𝗔𝗩𝗢𝗜𝗗 𝗘𝗠𝗢𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗔𝗟 𝗔𝗙𝗙𝗔𝗜𝗥

Even if you are married to the best spouse in the whole world, if you do not guard your heart, you may end up "falling in love" with someone aside your spouse and eventually ruin your marriage.

No one gets married and plan to have affair but lots of married men and women are into affairs today because they slept when they should have been wide awake with their five senses alert.

1. Don't be too friendly with the opposite s*x. This is where lots of married people land in trouble. Over spirituality and pride will destroy your marriage! You can't handle close friendship with the opposite s*x as a married person. Your heart is involved. Set boundaries. Be disciplined. Be cordial. Be respectful. Be godly. Be holy.

2. Don't share your personal problems with an opposite s*x friend. It will bond you together. Problems bond people.

3. Don't contact any opposite s*x you are fond of. If you secretly admire them, you are fond of them and their is a tingling in your heart at the mere thought of them, don't contact!

4. Avoid unnecessary eye contact that lingers with the opposite s*x.

5. Don't tell an opposite s*x you are romantic or s*xy, that private information is for your spouse only.

6. Avoid discussions with the opposite s*x when you are tired, very sad, depressed, sorrowful, drowsy, sleepy or very sick. This can cloud your judgment and make you say silly things. Talk to your husband/wife instead.

7. Avoid unnecessary compliment of the opposite s*x.

8. Stop saying "I love you" to the opposite s*x, for what?

9. Work on your marriage. Keep the fire of love and romance alive in your marriage!

10. Protect your family. Don't share your marital problem with your opposite s*x friend, it will bond you.

11.Never flirt with the opposite s*x.

12. Mind the pictures you post on the social media. Limit pictures that show your curves or portray you as s*xy.

13. Do not contact all your EX after marriage.

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