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24/12/2021

Empty experiences

Do you worry a lot about nonsense?

A well-known psychotherapist in one of his books suggests answering the following question in detail. If you knew death was coming soon, what would you want to change right now?

What if tomorrow is the last day? What will you do, what will you refuse, who will you call when you realize that there will be no second chance?

Empty experiences are something that every sick person regrets, who knows that his life will end soon. The relatives of the passing away face the same - this is called existential experience.

Anxiety is a rather meaningless state. It seems that it helps prepare for an emergency, but in fact it only devours strength and nerve cells.

Don't waste your resources on empty experiences. Always remember: while you are alive, nothing is over yet, everything can be changed.

At least just stop worrying about what the neighbors thought, that a colleague would bypass you for a promotion, or replay the conversation with your boss, guessing if he understood you correctly and what he meant.

Everything that distracts, transfers the resource from the place where it is eaten by anxiety, to the place where it can be spent on at least something useful.

In the moment of anxiety, switch to activity, physically do at least something. After all, as Sherlock Holmes said: "Work is better than a cure for stress."

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21/12/2021

On the power of words

Once two friends were talking:
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“My wife has changed so much. She was sweet and loving when we met. This is how she attracted me. And now it was as if she had been replaced: she has become so untidy, I don’t want to go out with her once again. She got fat, stopped caring for herself. I constantly tell her that she is a slob and that if this continues, no one will need her. And she's like against a wall: she doesn't hear, and it gets worse and worse. Well, he doesn't hear, he doesn't hear. Perhaps I will divorce her.

- Yes, I remember her in your first years. We met two girls together then, remember? And my, imagine, such a clever girl, I envy myself. It only becomes more beautiful every year, and the hostess is excellent. Yes, I just feel good with her, she is the best. I tell her that all the time.

20/12/2021

The parable of one blow

Somehow a man's car broke down. He knew that a master lived nearby, who is famous for his unique skill - he brings any technique back to life. But it takes a lot for work. A man counted and counted his losses, but there is nothing to do, a car is needed. He summoned the master.

He walked around the car, looked at it, sniffed it. Then he took the hammer, aimed carefully, and struck. And - oh, a miracle! - the mechanism started working again.

- How much do I owe you ?! - exclaimed the surprised owner.

“1000 dollars,” the master replied.

- But you made only one move! I am grateful to you, but why is it so expensive?

- $ 1 per hit. And I ask 9,999 dollars for the fact that for 30 years now, every day from morning to evening, I have been repairing cars, I know and feel every cog in them, every pipe. For the fact that any mechanism is like an open book for me.

P.S. Never underestimate your experience, your professionalism and work. Only you know what one movement of your hand costs you in the business in which you are a master.

17/12/2021

6 signs you have developed empathy

Empaths are loved because they, like no one else, know how not only to empathize, but literally feel themselves in the place of another person. They will listen carefully and sincerely and rush to help when necessary.

However, this keen sensitivity is not easy for empaths themselves. A non-empath, seeing a person who has had a hard day, will think, "Yes, he has had such a so-so day." The empath will think this way: "Something is not good for me."

Here are some signs that you can identify an empath:

✔️ In a large crowd, he will quickly feel emotionally drained.

✔️ He often has mood swings.

✔️He feels a need to help others.

✔️He always immediately understands that a person is lying.

✔️ Sometimes he feels that he needs to stay away from a person, while not having any facts that he may be dangerous.

✔️If someone is laughing or crying nearby, he has the same desire.

06/12/2021

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