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Trust or Gullibility?The words are similar, but in fact they are like a plus and a minus.• Gullibility is about naivety....
21/12/2021

Trust or Gullibility?

The words are similar, but in fact they are like a plus and a minus.

• Gullibility is about naivety. Remember in the "Diamond Hand": "Recruited! But how could he ?! Eh, he's so gullible. " An adult child, in short.
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A gullible person recklessly gives himself up to another. More precisely, not even to another, but to the image that he drew for himself about his partner. Blind feeling, in general, is dangerous for its owner.
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• Trust, on the contrary, is born gradually, from mutual signals to each other that it is reliable here, that you can rely, there is sympathy and similar values. A relationship of trust is built on a willingness to cooperate, openly and consciously on both sides.
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In a nutshell, trust is a choice, a well-trodden path of mutual disposition, time-tested. Gullibility is a reaction, a shaky swamp of exaggerated expectations and almost guaranteed disappointment.
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“It is much better not to believe in a person, but to be confident in him” (Stanislav Jerzy Lec). To the point😉
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Are you gullible?

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The parable of the old carThe father hugged his son, who had just graduated with honors and received a certificate:- Son...
19/12/2021

The parable of the old car

The father hugged his son, who had just graduated with honors and received a certificate:

- Son, you're a great fellow, I'm proud of you. I give you my car. It is far from new. And what I want you to do is take her to the used car collection point. And ask how much they are willing to offer for it.

The son thanked his father, shook his head and grunted in surprise - oh, those daddy's riddles. Then I drove to the used car station.

- Dad, they offered me a thousand dollars for her, because she is far from being in the best condition.

“Try the pawnshop,” my father said.

The pawnshop offered $ 100, they are not ready to give more for such old stuff, - the son conveyed their words to the father.

- Clear. Now here's the thing: go to the auto club and show the car to their owner.

The son did so. And he returned stunned:

- Dad, they offered 100 thousand dollars for it! The owner of the club did not want to let me go: he walked around the car, looked inside. It turns out that this is a cult model of his favorite brand, he has been looking for this for a long time.

- Son, now you see how important it is to be in the place where they know your real value. Remember for the future: you are not appreciated? Do not be upset or angry. It means only one thing - you are out of place. Just keep looking.

Abuser or relationship problems?It so happens that we attribute the discomfort in a relationship to a problem in our par...
18/12/2021

Abuser or relationship problems?

It so happens that we attribute the discomfort in a relationship to a problem in our partner: he is an abuser, so I feel bad. But the point may not be in him, but in the negative scenario of the relationship. Let's figure out how to tell one from the other.

1. If your partner is an abuser, then you are scared. You are afraid that it will "fly in" to you again, and you are waiting for his arrival with growing panic.

In a negative scenario, there is no fear. Yes, quarrel and it upsets you, but the feeling of panic is unfamiliar to you.

2. The abuser does not apologize after the conflict. Even if he's obviously wrong.

In a negative scenario, the partner is capable of this. Not the fact that he will apologize, of course, but he can admit that he is wrong.

3. The abuser conflicts in order to pour out negativity on you. Dot. He is not interested in what you think about this.

In a negative scenario, the partner starts a quarrel, because it has accumulated, and it will only be for the worse that it will remain silent. He wants your feedback, he cares.

4. The abuser can "punish" you by ignoring. Torment for weeks, even months. Because you are wrong and you have to admit it.

In a negative scenario, the partner can also turn on silence, but here the reason will be different - he is afraid to conflict with you. He is afraid to make things worse and lose you.

In general, in order not to destroy a relationship that can be preserved, it is worth figuring out who your partner really is. The key sign of an abuser is that you are vaguely afraid of him. Although he never did physical harm to you.

36 seconds: when there is no time to keep the relationship warmThe secret to a strong bond from marriage and divorce exp...
17/12/2021

36 seconds: when there is no time to keep the relationship warm

The secret to a strong bond from marriage and divorce expert, psychologist and writer John Gottman is:
six second kiss. Four times a day. Why exactly six seconds?

And you try in the morning, afternoon, evening and before going to bed to snuggle up to each other in a kiss - not to have a quick kiss, but to freeze and feel this moment. In this short time, our hormone of happiness - oxytocin - is released into the bloodstream, and the brain fixes the source of this joy. It is you: he and she. Both of you receive the signal: "I am with you, I am near."

Why four times a day? More often. Does not work? Yes, at least a couple of times a day, touch your lips to each other for a few seconds - make this an obligatory ritual of your meetings and farewells.

Gottman considers four of these visits the best option for maintaining feelings for each other. And he knows what he is talking about - he has been studying this topic for over 40 years.

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Never put off until tomorrow what you can do the day after tomorrow Why don't we get things done? You are planning a lis...
16/12/2021

Never put off until tomorrow what you can do the day after tomorrow

Why don't we get things done? You are planning a list for today, but you can’t cope, postpone it until tomorrow. Then the day after tomorrow.

Then it turns into a vicious circle - unfulfilled tasks hang over your soul. They irritate, do not let you breathe out and feel free. Sound familiar?

Here are 3 reasons why you are unable to close cases:

• there is not enough time;
• lack of normal communication;
• lack of motivation.

In other words: force majeure happens that shift the schedule. Or: you cannot complete a task because of someone confusing your plans. Finally, both of these factors can lead to a loss of interest in the case.

How to unravel this tangle? Ask yourself questions:

-something went wrong?
- How can I carve out enough time for this case?
- Who can I contact for help?
- what are the deadlines for everything to work out?
- Do I really need this?

This structured approach will allow you to get rid of the obsessive sense of a dead end, will help you get down to business. And finally close the question that is getting on your nerves.

Model wears: UK 8/ EU 36/ US 4Model's height: 170 cm/5'7”
05/12/2021

Model wears: UK 8/ EU 36/ US 4
Model's height: 170 cm/5'7”

Model wears: UK 8/ EU 36/ US 4Model's height: 170cm/5'7"
30/11/2021

Model wears: UK 8/ EU 36/ US 4
Model's height: 170cm/5'7"

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