01/01/2021
As we start the new year 2021, many of us will look back on the crazy year 2020 and reflect on what we've been through. But for many, the challenges don't seem to be letting up any time soon. You still might be dealing with sleepless nights with your baby or epic tantrums with your toddler. Perhaps the pandemic continues to upend your life, or you find yourself dispirited this supposedly festive season.
The worst part is when you don't see the light at the end of the tunnel just yet. The strength and willpower you showed in the beginning have been wrung dry when you've been in this situation for months on end.
But that's exactly what I want to point out: this is a situation, a temporary life situation you're currently facing. While "temporary" is relative, differentiate whatever life situation you're going through from your LIFE.
Your life is YOU, not the things happening to you. Your life is who you are inside (especially your thoughts and feelings), not the circumstances you can't control. And no matter what happens in your life situation, it doesn't define your life or who you are—it's simply the chapter you find yourself in at the moment.
And trust me, I know the feeling of being weighed down, the darkness of not knowing what the future holds or wondering when a particular life situation will ever end. Know that life ebbs and flows, that whatever challenges you're going through are temporary, and that one day, you'll look back and realize that this needed to happen for the benefit of you.
This new year, no matter how joyful or stressful (or both) it can feel, is a reminder that everything comes in seasons. And that the next 364 days —even the next day—can always tell a new story.
From all of us at Guidance and Counseling Consultants Ltd, Happy new year 2021