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A WISE MAN ONCE SAID 1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they h...
16/08/2022

A WISE MAN ONCE SAID

1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to;

2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.

3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.

4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;

5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;

6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;

7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative;

8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;

9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're;

10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;

12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;

13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next;

14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness;

15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect;

16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude;

17. Never give advice until you’re asked;

18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary;

19. Mind your business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it;

20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. Moreso, eye contact is as important as your speech; and

21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren.

22.After reading a good message try to say "Thanks for the message".

APPRECIATION remains the easiest way of getting what you don't have....
❤️♥️

07/04/2022

_By Kabojja, SMACK OB Dr. Roy William Mayega @ # Facebook 27.03.2022_ 👇👇🙏

Substance abuse in secondary schools is not only a problem of today - it started way way back, and as far back as I can recall. Some of our first 'innocent' cigarette puffs happened behind the latrine in Primary 6 - we were recruited and tutored by one of the staff members' university going son. Dropping the habit several decades later was one of the biggest fights of our lives but part of it involved cultivation of the sort of wit that comes with maturity, experience, and life-skills.

And for some students, therefore something worse: In SMACK, the ma*****na 'industry' was driven by Mafia gangs man of whom had switched from other schools - one of the most notorious schools for 'donating' drug users/dealers to other schools was Buddo and the other one was Ntare. Incidentally, some of the most notorious 'substance of abuse kingpins' were also the most prolific performers in the Science subjects so I sometimes felt that the school had a soft-spot for them. Ma*****na was not the biggest substance of abuse - that position went to illicit alcohol taking and ci******es. At the time we joined SMACK, the school's boundaries were very porous so students would cross the fence into the neighboring villages whenever they wanted. To eat 'sabulenya', to roam the villages, to buy pastries and ci******es' and for a few, to hit the night discos and to search for loose women. The crop of students we found was reminiscent of the substantial break-down in social order characteristic of the 80s. They did anything they wanted, but surprisingly, also read their books and excelled. In fact, there is a time when the school was hit by an epidemic of snake bites. For two weeks, an average of 2 students was struck by the extremely poisonous long snakes called black mambas. Some students were even attacked in the library while others were struck while standing on very smooth floors. Rumour has it that a notorious gang had stolen two goats from the community and roasted them in the bush and that the community members had avenged the act by be-witching the school. Problem is that witchcraft is non-discriminatory. In another incident, drunken students who were headed for a disco-dance at 11.00pm in Nkumba attempted to stop the President's convoy mbu to 'hitch a ride'. The SFC operatives whacked them with batons but never shot at anyone. One student is on the record to have marathoned 2 kilometers from Kawuku trading center to SMACK and back (4km) just because he had been promised some s*x by a ho**er and he needed a condom. Most of these idiots eventually passed their exams, some with flying colours.

The new Head-teacher initiated a dramatic turn-around in discipline but even with the best of his interventions, some of the most hard-core criminals survived and even thrived. For example, despite constructing a perimeter fence around the entire school, students (me inclusive), still went about their ways, crossing through several makeshift 'holes' in the fence. In fact, one of the safest ways of escaping was through the main gate - when you walked confidently out of the gate, no one was bothered. Some people thought you were going to the 'Marian Chapel' at the Brother's Presbytery. The true destination: Maama Teewo - she sold the most concentrated form of liqour I have ever seen. It also smelled like sweet lavender but don't be deceived: It was deadly! If you sipped on it slowly, you'd never succeed in swallowing anything as it evaporated almost instantly from your mouth. So you had to pour it vertically down your mouth in one instant gulp, head facing stiffly upwards. Then you'd gasp and rub your excoriated throat as the liquid slowly burnt its way down your esophagus and into the stomach. 'Kasese' as it was called, the drink was famous for instant results. Maama Teewo was famous among the criminal gangs. She diligently served her customers while carrying 'Teewo' on her back. Stories are told that she had no time for breast-feeding breaks for Teewo but she had adapted by developing elongated breasts - she would simply throw her breast under the arm-pits and around her chest into Teewo's mouth on her back. This uncommon body feature made her one of the most prolific multi-taskers. Teewo never complained as Maama served Waraji, Kasese, Lira Lira, Tonto and pork to her student revelers. One of the World Cups (I think it was 1990) was almost entirely watched on Maama Teewo's 14 inch Black and White CRT TV, totally ignoring the 21inch screen back at the school campus. Even when I participated in some of these escapades, I was largely a good boy. I went to church everyday. I was a member of the Legion of Mary and said the rosary regularly in the Marian Chapel. I was an alterboy and I played the organ in church. I read books like there was no tomorrow - yet I made the occasional visit to Maama Teewo. There was some sense of adventure it stirred in response to my raving teenage hormones.

My thinking therefore is that this whole hullaballoo and judgmental attitude to a certain student is uncalled for - adolescence is a period of learning and self-growth and several of the things we did as adolescents, we outgrew them. There is also a substantial difference in the way the school leaders then and those at present, dealt with the problems. The leaders of that time often owned the problem, recognizing that it was their own duty to discipline the children who had been put under their care. They were conservative with suspensions and used several other punishments before someone was sent home. For instance, we had the labour camps in the school farm. Some of the notorious criminals became prolific bush clearers. Harder core criminals were given tree stumps to uproot or anthills to flatten. The size of the tree stump/anthill was proportionate to the magnitude of the crime. The deliverables: You had to present a complete tap root from the tree stump and an intact 'queen' from the anthill. One of the most notorious criminals became so prolific in felling tree-stumps that he developed an innovative approach that substantially shortened the task: He would start the excavation several feet away from the main tree stamp, severing all the lateral roots and tertiary roots until he fully freed it and left it standing on the tap root. Then he'd chop up the tap root but leave the stump hanging by a few more chops. Then he'd call the Headmaster who would ask why he had called him without fully felling the stump. Mr. criminal would go on to give the the stump one single kick, at which it came down instantly in a thunderous crush. Criminal would be re-integrated into 'normal' society only for him to commit the same crime the following week and the cycle was repeated. These criminals were neither expelled not suspended. Some of the smaller punishments included shaving the culprits heads down to a 'shaolin cut'. In the 80's/90's, this was the most humiliating thing you'd do to a teenager. When large sections of the class misbehaved, an 'ecological level' punishment would be meted. The most painful class-action-punishment was when all 'Socials' and visits to other schools of the opposite s*x were suspended. Occasionally, students would be asked to call their parents to the school as a punishment - this was one of the penultimate punishments before suspension. You would then be asked to confess your sins in public, apologize, and lie down for a 10-lash spanking by your dad in front of your peers. The only 'crimes' that led to almost immediate suspension were theft, severe bullying, and religious fundamentalism (leaders of extremist evangelical groups that preached about the biblical rupture starting in 1986 and ending in 1993 with the battle of Armageddon (Operation Desert Storm), the destruction of Israel and that our beloved Pope would be unleashed as the anti-Christ). Incidentally, the school had a fair level of tolerance for this nonsense - only the leaders would be suspended and the followers received warnings on their termly report cards. One of the notorious cult leaders turned out to have fulminant schizophrenia and he disappeared from my world. I would love to meet him to ask him why the world never ended and why he hated the Pope. Anyways, the school also fought with same s*x acts among the adolescents and at one time there was almost an epidemic, following which about 30 students were suspended. Most of these were re-admitted after they signed a statement of commitment to abstain from s*x.

My conclusion therefore is that antisocial behaviour, experimentation and acts of poor judgment are common and expected in secondary schools. The majority of students are good, but the the occurance of antisocial behaviour is normally distributed. Because students spend a good part of their formative life in schools, school heads should take a good share of the responsibility in disciplining, shaping and forming the student. Publishing of individual acts of indiscipline in the mass media should not be one of the front-line disciplinary measures. That is amateur leadership. I also want to note that the preponderance of A-List schools to admit students of the rich and powerful did not start in 2020 - It is as old as these schools - we had children of Ministers, opposition leaders, ultra rich people and corrupt oligarchs as much then as it is now. Several of them came through 'alternative' channels but many of them also came on merit. In modern times, schools have addressed this challenge by expanding their intake numbers. Lastly, although a number of these 'kamooli' rich kinds were poor performers, several of them went on to be successful after school meaning that the objective of going to these schools is not only to get super-humongous grades, but to also learn the 'art of life'. No one should be judged solely on the basis of not being super-bright - intelligence is largely an inborn attribute but it is also one that can be learned and 'epigenetically' altered through life-skills. Likewise, being priviledged is not a crime. The only beef I had with priviledged children is the obnoxious habit of not sharing even a little. Except for a very small number of 'saintly' peers, the vast majority of priviledged children cannot share their text books, eats, or study kits. All they share is alcohol and cigarette butts. It is so baffling the level of selfishness that these snobs espouse. What they hardly know is that this kind of behaviour is never forgotten and it builds lifelong resentment and disdain from their less priviledged peers. Schools should help these children know better, by teaching them empathy, compassion, teamwork and ethics. Such soft skills might even be more important than ill-designed anti-drug crusades.

A LETTER TO ALL MENDear Men,If you want to make it in life, you don't have to enter every HOLE you see. Some holes are d...
30/03/2022

A LETTER TO ALL MEN

Dear Men,

If you want to make it in life, you don't have to enter every HOLE you see. Some holes are dead traps. Some holes are destiny destroyers, business destroyers and life destroyers.

My brother, do not obey your Er****on at all times. Most Er****ons mislead you to wrong direction. Control your er****on if you don't want to to have few days on earth with much poverty on you.

It is not everything you see under skirt that you should hustle to eat, some skirts contain snakes that will bite you and leave you uncomfortable. Control your s*xual urge. Self control and abstinence in most cases pays a lot.

A man who can control his s*xual urge is a man who can live many years on earth. Men don't know that some of their downfalls are caused by MULTIPLE girlfriends. Not every girl has a good spirit. Some are demons, some has poison in between their legs.

Be careful.

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I am a married husband with 2 children. My wife traveled to UK after successfully scholarships  for 2years only.. But st...
11/12/2021

I am a married husband with 2 children. My wife traveled to UK after successfully scholarships for 2years only.. But still now is 4yrs she has not yet returned back every time I ask her why she have not returned as we agreed she will complained about different challenges she is going through over there. Early this year, she met a white man who promised to help her have a stay and better life on a condition of divorcing me and getting married to him. My wife sent me a divorce letter which I need to sign to prove we are no more married . She told me I should act along because through the White man she will have more opportunities over there and also have financial stability and be given a stay in UK.and she will be sending me money to support our 2 children. But if I didn't sign it, she might be deported anytime. She also warned me not to tell anyone including our families because she told me we should make it a secret. I am confused.

pls advice before its to late. 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🤔🤔..

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29/09/2021

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A father said to his daughter “You have graduated with honors, here is a car I bought many years ago.It is a bit older n...
27/07/2021

A father said to his daughter “You have graduated with honors, here is a car I bought many years ago.

It is a bit older now but before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them you want to sell it and see how much they offer you for it.

The daughter went to the used car lot, returned to her father and said, “They offered me $1,000 because they said it looks pretty worn out.”

The father said, now “Take it to the pawn shop.” The daughter went to the pawn shop, returned to her father and said,”The pawn shop offered only $100 because it is an old car.”

The father asked his daughter to go to a car club now and show them the car. The daughter then took the car to the club, returned and told her father,” Some people in the club offered $100,000 for it because it’s a Holden Torana and it's an iconic car and sought by many collectors”

Now the father said this to his daughter, “The right place values you the right way,” If you are not valued, do not be angry, it means you are in the wrong place. Those who know your value are those who appreciate you. Never stay in a place where no one sees your value. Never!!!!

11/12/2020



I know of a bus driver who drove too much and for too long that all his reliable conductors and turnboys left the bus and retired. For 35 years, he remained the only driver of this only bus in my town. He never allowed a chance for his bus conductors and turnboys to gain practice while driving on the bus. No conductor or turnboy had a right to sit their butts in the driver’s seat, even for the purpose of cleaning the dashboard.

The cleaners of the dashboard were carefully picked and had to have a quality of ambition similar to ...Katumba oye... Soon, the good conductors and turnboys aged before they could learn how to drive a bus. They left the bus hopeless and frustrated. They are now bitter old men, many full of stories of how they were betrayed by the bus driver.

Meanwhile, the driver needed to recruit new conductors and turnboys. He went for erratic street kids and street beggars, men and women who never saw life beyond the need for food and sleep. They loved the roadside gonja and slept in the bus. The aging driver loved this new arrangement. The street kids and the beggars had no interest in learning how to drive the bus. The driver grew old and soon lost his sight. He could not drive the bus any longer. Someone else had to drive the bus.

They called the former conductors and turnboys to help but they lacked an instructor since they had retired before learning how to drive. The bus remained parked for some time and this threatened the street boys and beggars. So, the street boys and beggars decided to vandalize the bus. They smashed its windscreens, burnt its tires, removed its seats and sold all its metal scrap to Chinese steel industries. That was the end of the bus. The bus had come and gone with its driver.

2020
13/06/2020

2020

PERSPECTIVE IS EVERYTHING!

A father said to his son: You graduated with honors, here is a car that I acquired many years ago ... it is several years old.

But before I give it to you, take it to the used car lot downtown and tell them I want to sell it and see how much they offer you.

The son went to the used car lot, returned to his father and said, "They offered me $ 1,000 because it looks very worn out."

The father said, "Take him to the pawn shop."

The son went to the pawn shop, returned to his father and said, "The pawn shop offered $ 100 because it was a very old car."

The father asked his son to go to a car club and show them the car.

The son took the car to the club, returned and told his father: “Some people in the club offered $ 100,000 for it, since it is a Nissan Skyline R34, iconic car and sought after by many.

The father said to his son, "I wanted you to know that the right place values ​​you the right way." ...

If you are not valued, do not be angry, it means that you are in the wrong place. Those who know your value are those who appreciate you, and never stay in a place where no one sees your value.
You’re in the right place at the right time. We are all in this together!!

05/06/2020

( This is so profound and naked truth)

A few months ago I was speaking to a wealthy property developer based in Durban (he's white). While chatting to him, he told me that the business model I was telling him about was similar to that of Trafalgar. He then emailed the CEO of Trafalgar and introduced me.

The businessman then told me that his father and the founder of Trafalgar (the father of the current CEO) had been friends for more than 40 years. He then told me that the CEO of Trafalgar is more like a brother to him. This made me realise that relationships are the biggest capital rich people have.

I looked into my own family and realised that there's no 40 year relationship my family has with another family. I began looking around and realised that most black people don't have those kinds of relationships, especially business relationships. A lot of people in our community don't even have friendships that have lasted more than 20 years. It's rare to find those.

Our people have been conditioned to compete with one another so much, that even when they have genuine relationships with people that can help them, they turn those relationships into competition. We don't have a problem with lack of capital, we have a relationship deficiency. There are many people who can fund your business today, but you just don't have a strong enough relationship with them. You have not deposited enough into the relationship to be able to withdraw from it.

Relationships are resources. There are things I wouldn't have been able to do if I wasn't connected to certain individuals or families. Those people willingly put their money on the line to back me and my family. It's sad that most of our people haven't developed the maturity and know-how to cultivate long term relationships. They move from one friendship to another the same way most move from one romantic relationship to another. There's no long term vision.

Let me tell you something, relationships are the capital that you are looking for. You don't need money to start a business. You need solid relationships with people who will be willing to back you up. Who do you think funded Facebook at the early stage? It was someone who knew someone who knew someone.

So if you don't have money, you withdraw from your relationship bank account. I'm also praying and working on long-term relationships with people. It's not easy, relationships go through seasons, but with prayer and maturity - we can cultivate relationships that our children will be able to Withdraw from 40 years later.

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