08/27/2017
You've been fired. Now what?
Never mind you knew you were wrong and your behavior was going to get you into trouble. What will you do now? You're embarrassed, ashamed, and (hopefully) penitent.
If you are facing criminal charges, get an attorney. And for heaven's sake, take his advice.
If you were fired for other reasons, you have to decide how to handle your termination when you finally get an interview for your next job. You'll need to figure out how to answer the dreaded question every interviewer is going to ask; "Why were you terminated from your last job?"
First things first. Sit down and do some serious reflection on the events leading to your termination and what you could have done differently. There were plenty of warning signs along the way. Did you ignore them? Be an adult and assess your actions in the cold harsh light of day.
You may take exactly 15 minutes to rant and rail and whine about the injustice of it all. I'll wait.
Now, let's look at how to address your firing with your potential next employer without destroying your chances for getting hired. Here is the best strategy you can use. Speak clearly and look the interviewer in the eye. Now is the time to show grace, dignity, and maturity. Never, ever, lie.
"I was terminated for ______. I have to say, this experience taught me to manage my (anger, my addiction, my whatever) more constructively. I've done my best to set things right and make amends. I have done a lot of soul-searching and am a much wiser person now."
Then stop talking. Don't babble, don't justify, don't pile on details that will only make things worse, and don't be defensive. Just shut up. Let the interviewer ask the next question. Hopefully, the interview will move forward into your skills and experience.
Many people get fired from jobs for which they were unqualified, for inappropriate behavior, or for personality traits they needed to fix. Over the course of a 40 or 50-year career, mistakes get made, bosses are sometimes unjust, or things don't work out. The important thing is to accept the knocks you get along the way, learn the lesson, and keep growing in your career.