06/30/2026
Be a Lighthouse, Not a Tugboat
Early in a session this week, a client admitted something a lot of leaders feel but rarely say out loud. They had been trying to lead by rescuing everyone.
Every time a team member struggled, they jumped in, took on the problem, and dragged the person to shore. It felt like care. It was quietly running them into the ground.
So we talked about the difference between a lighthouse and a tugboat.
A tugboat leaves its post, jumps into the water, and pulls one ship in at a time. It burns out doing it.
A lighthouse stands on a strong foundation and shines. It guides everyone toward the harbor at once, steady through any storm.
I watched something shift. The goal was never to stop caring. It was to lead from a place that does not move.
Where in your leadership are you tugging when you could be shining?