Take My Advice or Not

03/16/2026

Let’s be honest for a minute…

Nobody warned us menopause would include random internal heat waves and waking up at 3am looking like we ran a marathon in our sleep.

Hot flashes and night sweats are real.

But there are actually some tools that can help take the edge off.

I just published a new blog breaking down menopause relief tools women are using right now to stay cool and sleep better.

Take a look 👇
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03/06/2026

03/04/2026

Waking up soaked? Night sweats during menopause are real — and fixable. 🌙💧 Dive into simple cooling strategies, sleep-friendly swaps, and what’s actually happening in your body when the thermostat goes haywire. Read the full guide and get back to better sleep Link in Bio/comments

You went to bed feeling like a chic, composed queen. Then, 2:37 AM hits. Suddenly, you’re awake and feeling like you just ran a 5K under your weighted blanket. Sheets? Damp. Neck? Wet. Hairline? Sweating like you’re in a 90s music video. Night sweats are easily one of the most disruptive symptom...

03/03/2026

That single stubborn chin hair during menopause? It’s more common than you think — and there are gentle, effective ways to handle it. Read our quick guide to why it happens, simple at-home fixes, and when to see a pro. 🪄✨

3-minute read — practical tips for real life.

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03/03/2026

Why is weight showing up around the belly during menopause? Chronic stress → higher cortisol → abdominal fat. Sleep disruption, caregiver duties, career pressure and hormonal shifts make midlife a perfect storm for central weight gain. Read the short guide for practical tips to reduce stress and protect your midsection: https://wix.to/LULzPhY

Cortisol Loves the Belly Chronic stress increases cortisol. Cortisol encourages abdominal fat storage. Midlife often equals: Sleep disruption Caregiver stress Career pressure Hormonal fluctuations That’s a perfect storm for central weight gain.

02/22/2026

Menopause bringing unexpected changes? You’re not alone — it’s often estrogen, not attitude. Read our quick, honest guide to why vaginal dryness happens and what you can do about it. Full article: https://wix.to/gevXaWA

Between us? We’re calling this F & I — Facts and Intimacy. 😉 Because nobody explained this part properly. First Things First: It’s Not You. It’s Estrogen. When you move through perimenopause → menopause → post menopause, estrogen starts clocking out early like it’s got PTO to burn.

02/10/2026

Waffle House is doing candlelit Valentine’s Day dinners… and I have thoughts. 🕯️🧇
Romance is changing — and this trend proves it. Do you agree? Too Familiar?
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Discover the takemyadviceornot blog at TakeMyAdviceOrNot Blog. Dive into unfiltered girlfriend advice, chic style tips, and self-care inspiration.

02/05/2026

Ever get that gnawing feeling something’s off — but you keep explaining it away? New on the blog: “When You Know Something Feels Off (But You Keep Explaining It Away).” Why women minimize red flags (not because they’re weak, but because they don’t want to seem difficult, start over, be wrong, or ask for too much). Read the full piece and give yourself permission to trust your instincts. https://wix.to/hrooD5g

Why Women Talk Themselves Out of Red Flags Let’s be honest. We minimize because: We don’t want to seem “difficult.” We don’t want to start over We don’t want to be wrong We don’t want to look like we’re asking for too much So we say things like:

02/03/2026

I like this. Quiet. Honest. Waffle House with candles. Reservation-only. Breakfast for dinner. No pretense. Just presence. Would you go? Tell me below.

Romance doesn’t have to be fancy—it has to be thoughtful. And there’s something weirdly charming about saying, “I didn’t need to impress anyone else. I just wanted this moment with you.” Also? Breakfast food at dinner is undefeated.

01/29/2026

Menopause doesn’t have to be a mystery — it can be a laugh-out-loud survival story. Meet the 3 AM 'Swamp Goddess' wake-ups, the 4 PM 'Toaster-Throwing Threshold,' and every recalibration in between. Read a quick, honest take on what a day in the life of a Hormone Heist actually looks like. https://wix.to/EID1Z4H

From the 3 AM 'Swamp Goddess' awakening to the 4 PM 'Toaster-Throwing Threshold,' menopause isn't just a phase—it's a full-time job. You aren't losing your mind, Sis; you're just recalibrating. Come see what a day in the life of a Hormone Heist actually looks like.