06/21/2024
This may sound harsh, but it’s true and incredibly useful. Read to the end for the full benefit:
Almost EVERY man is focused on the same things in dating and relationships, which often don’t make a real difference:
- **Looking better** (through workouts and fashion) 🏋️♂️👗
- 🔥 **Reality:** You’re unlikely to be the most fit, most physically attractive, or the most fashionable.
- **Displaying wealth** 💸💎
- 🔥 **Experience Insight:** Truly wealthy people ($350k+ income) often hide it. Those who are somewhat wealthy might show it off a bit. The less wealthy either resent all wealth or try to flaunt what they don’t have. Either way, you’re unlikely to be the wealthiest or have the flashiest lifestyle. Even if you are, you’ll attract women looking for an Instagram photo op 📸 or a provider, but that doesn’t mean she loves you or values your character.
So what makes the difference?
**Focus on character.** 💯 While everyone else is fixated on looks, flash, and tactics, character is what truly matters. It’s the only thing that stands out after the first meeting and the only thing that deepens attraction over time. (Even the most attractive people will seem more common and human as years go by.) ⏳
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