10/12/2026
Being the person everyone depends on can feel like leadership.
It can also be the reason your organization can’t grow.
For years, I thought being the leader meant having the answers. Solve the problem, make the decision, step in when something wasn’t working, and be the one everyone could count on.
It feels good to be needed, right up until you realize you’ve unintentionally taught everyone to need you. That’s not scale. That’s dependency.
One of the hardest transitions we make as leaders is moving from “How much can I accomplish?” to “How much can happen without me?”
Your value as a leader isn’t measured by how many decisions require you.
Eventually, it’s measured by how many great decisions can be made when you’re not in the room.