10/24/2022
7 rules of psychology that can change your worldview.
1. Rule of the Mirror
The people around me are my mirrors. They reflect the features of my own personality, often not realized by me. For example, if someone is rude to me, it means that I want it that way, I allow it. If someone deceives me again and again, then I have a tendency to believe anyone. So no one to be offended.
2. Rule of Choice
I realize that everything that happens in my life is the result of my own choice. And if today I communicate with a boring person, does it mean that I am the same boring and boring person? There are no bad and evil people - there are unfortunate ones. If I sort out their problems, then I like it. So there is no one to complain to. I am the cause of everything that happens to me. We are the author and creator of our own destiny.
3. Rule of Error
I agree that I could be wrong. Other people should not always consider my opinion or my actions to be correct. The real world is not only black and white, there is also light gray and dark white. I'm not an IDEAL, I'm just a good person and I have the right to make mistakes. The main thing is to be able to recognize it and correct it in time.
4. The Matching Rule
I have exactly what, and exactly as much, what I correspond to, what I deserve, no more, no less, whether it concerns relationships with people, work or money. If I can't love a person to the fullest, it's ridiculous to demand that this person love me THAT much. So all my claims are meaningless. And at the same time, when I decide to change, the people around me also change (for the better)
5. Dependency Rule
Nobody owes me anything. I can selflessly help everyone I can. And it makes me happy. To be kind, you have to be strong. To become strong, you must believe that I can do anything. And I believe! But you also need to be able to say “NO!”
6. Rule of Presence
I live here and now. There is no past, because every next second comes the present. There is no future because it doesn't exist yet. Attachment to the past leads to depression; preoccupation with the future breeds anxiety. As long as I live in the present, I am REAL. There is reason to rejoice.
7. Rule of Optimism
While we scold life, it passes by. The eyes see, the legs walk, the ears hear, the heart works, the Soul rejoices. My fitness is sunny summer, meadow and river. As long as I move, as long as the wind blows over my skin, I live. When I watch TV lying on the couch, or chat with friends on the Internet, I am not in this, but in the other world.