10/17/2026
When your business stalls out, it’s easy to assume you just haven’t found the right answer yet.
I did that for years.
I learned from brilliant people. I applied what worked for them. And I kept assuming that if I couldn’t make it work the same way, I was missing something.
What I was missing was discernment.
Knowing which advice was useful.
Knowing which rules I had inherited.
And knowing when I was trying to force something into my business that was never mine in the first place.
That changes the question.
Instead of immediately asking, “What should I do next?”
Start looking at what you’re already trying to make work, who taught you it had to work that way, and whether it actually fits the woman building the business.
That’s where your Code starts to matter.