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08/31/2026

Hot take: networking isn’t transactional, every relationship is. And pretending otherwise is exactly what makes your networking feel awkward.

We treat “transactional” like a dirty word. But every relationship runs on some exchange: attention, support, value, care. That’s not gross — it’s how human connection works.

The reason networking feels icky isn’t that there’s an exchange. It’s that bad networking makes the exchange one-sided and immediate — you meet someone and instantly extract. No give, all take. That’s what people recoil from.

So the fix isn’t “be less transactional.” It’s “make the exchange generous and patient”:
💜 Give first
💜 Give more than you take
💜 Let the timeline stretch

Do that, and the transactional nature stops being a problem, it becomes the whole point. Stop apologizing for wanting something, and start leading with what you offer.

From my Decoding Corporate series on networking and relationship-building. What’s the most generous networking move someone’s ever made on you? 👇

08/30/2026

Proximity bias is wrecking your promotion decisions, and you might not even know it. Here’s how to fix it.

On hybrid teams, managers subconsciously favor the people they can see. In-office employees are more visible, so their presence registers as engagement, automatically, without your active judgment. Meanwhile, remote team members are doing excellent work that’s becoming invisible. This is proximity bias. Research shows it shapes who gets stretch assignments, who gets credit, and who gets promoted.

The fix is to prioritize making output visible:
1️⃣ Ask everyone to document contributions, so good work doesn’t depend on you happening to witness it
2️⃣ Build structured recognition into your team rhythm, not just spontaneous hallway praise that favors whoever’s nearby
3️⃣ Run a calibration check before any promotion decision: “Am I rating presence, or results?”

The best performer on your team isn’t always the one you see most. If you lead a hybrid or remote team, this is one of the most important biases to manage, because you’re probably running it without realizing.

From my Decoding Corporate series for people leaders. Managers, have you caught proximity bias in yourself?

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08/27/2026

Why team events won’t fix your engagement problem, and what actually will.

Engagement scores drop, and the standard response is to plan a team event. Save the pizza budget, it won’t work. Team events address visibility, not engagement, and those aren’t the same thing.

Real engagement comes from three things:
1️⃣ Autonomy
2️⃣ Clear contribution
3️⃣ Feeling genuinely known by your manager

A happy hour, a pizza Friday, or a mandatory escape room doesn’t touch any of those, and your team knows it, which is why forced fun often makes engagement worse, not better.

The recode isn’t flashy: the single highest-leverage move is the individual 1:1 where you actually understand what each person needs to do their best work, then go remove what’s in their way. That one conversation, done well, is worth ten team events.

Engagement isn’t an event. It’s whether people feel seen, trusted, and set up to do work that matters.
From my Decoding Corporate series for people leaders. Managers, what’s actually moved engagement on your team?

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08/22/2026

Hot take: the companies most panicked about AI replacing workers should be far more worried about the employees who refuse to use it.

Everyone’s fixated on the dramatic version, robots taking jobs. But the real near-term risk inside most organizations is the widening gap between people who’ve learned to work with AI and people waiting for it to blow over.

The person using AI well isn’t getting replaced, they’re getting faster, covering more ground, freeing time for high-judgment work. The person refusing to touch it is slowly becoming more expensive and less competitive for the exact same role.

Refusing to learn AI won’t protect your job. It just makes you the easiest person to fall behind.

To be clear, this is on organizations too. If you’re not giving people the tools, training, and permission to learn, that’s your gap to close, not just theirs.

From my Decoding Corporate series on AI and the future of work. Where’s the resistance coming from in your workplace? 👇

08/20/2026

What to outsource to AI at work, and what to never give up.

If you’ve been using AI for everything and feeling less sharp, that’s not your imagination. Using AI without a framework isn’t efficiency. It’s atrophy. The tasks you outsource are the tasks you stop developing.

Here’s the keep-or-outsource line that keeps you ahead:

OUTSOURCE to AI:
First drafts
Formatting and cleanup
Scanning and summarizing information
Repetitive structuring

KEEP for yourself:
Creative synthesis
Judgment calls under ambiguity
Anything requiring you to read a real human
The decisions that define your point of view

The skill in the AI era isn’t using it more, it’s knowing what to keep for yourself. Get that right and AI makes you faster and sharper. Get it wrong and it slowly replaces the exact skills that made you valuable in the first place.

From my Decoding Corporate series on AI, careers, and the future of work. Where do you draw the line on AI at work? 👇 Save this.

08/15/2026

Starting a series! Here are 3 ideas to try next week for every leader. 📅 CareerCoaching

08/13/2026

The hidden phrases sabotaging your credibility at work and the swaps that fix them.
If you’ve ever softened a great point with “I just” or “sorry to bother you,” you’re not alone. This is one of the most common workplace communication habits, especially for women and early-career professionals. The issue isn’t confidence; it’s that hedging language signals uncertainty before your idea lands, which trains the people around you to treat your contributions as tentative.

The fix isn’t to become cold or aggressive. It’s to keep your warmth and redirect it:
“Sorry to bother you” → “Thanks for making time”
“This might be a dumb question” → just ask it
“I just think maybe we should” → “I recommend”

Same warmth. Same you. None of the credibility loss.

This is part of my Decoding Corporate series, where I break down the communication patterns holding people back at work, and give you the exact recode. Which one do you catch yourself saying most? Drop it below 👇 and save this for your next big meeting.

08/08/2026

Hot take: Most workplace urgency is fake. More often than not, “urgent” is just poor planning, surprise requests, or the assumption that fast means important. But when everything is urgent, teams end up overwhelmed and burned out. Because if everything is urgent, nothing is.

What’s the biggest source of fake urgency where you work?

07/31/2026

Why networking feels gross, and how to actually build a network that works.

Here’s the real reason networking feels icky: most people only do it when they need something. The ask comes first, the relationship second, and the person on the other end feels it immediately. That kind of network doesn’t hold weight when you actually need it.

The fix is reciprocity-first networking: give before you ask, and be specific about it.
✅ Saw an article that made you think of someone? Send it.
✅ Can you introduce two people who’d benefit from knowing each other? Do it.
✅ Noticed someone’s win? Acknowledge it.

No ask attached. Do this consistently, before you need anything.

This is the only networking that compounds, because the relationship becomes the asset. By the time you do have an ask, you’ve earned the standing to make it. Relationship-building beats transactional every time, it just takes patience most people won’t invest.

From my Decoding Corporate series on workplace influence and career growth. What’s the best (non-cringey) networking move someone’s made on you? 👇

07/29/2026

Why every day at work is a job interview, and how to win it without trying too hard.

Most career advice focuses on interview pre: how to answer questions, what to ask, how to follow up. But the informal evaluation that happens every day is what shapes your trajectory. Your manager’s manager, your cross-functional peers, and the people who’ll one day be asked, “What’s it like to work with them?” are constantly forming impressions, long before any formal process begins. Even if you work elsewhere, your reputation will precede you.

The good news is you can be intentional about it. Three things that signal leadership regardless of your title:
Frame problems with a path forward, not just complaints. Show you’ve done your homework before asking for a solution.

Notice how you leave people feeling; it outlasts what you said. Humans are emotional before we are logical.
Stay calm and curious in the first 60 seconds of any hard conversation. Openness moves us forward.

Leadership presence is a skill, not a personality trait. It can be developed with consistent practice.

Part of my Decoding Corporate series on the workplace dynamics nobody explains. What’s a moment you were “being evaluated” without realizing it? 👇

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