Love Before ALL

Love Before ALL LBA vision: We envision a Beloved Community where all children are in nurturing and harmonious relationships with skillfully regulated adults.

LBA Mission: We activate relationship power to optimize personal, organizational, and community wellness.

In the words of Toni Jones, โ€œYou are a human being, not a Human Doingโ€. You run in seasons and cycles, not a machine des...
03/15/2026

In the words of Toni Jones, โ€œYou are a human being, not a Human Doingโ€. You run in seasons and cycles, not a machine designed for linear extraction.

Toxic productivity convinces us to attach our inherent human worth to our economic output. It demands that we operate at 100% capacity at all times, completely ignoring our natural rhythms and emotional needs. When we fundamentally redefine what "capacity" actually means, everything shifts. We move from a paradigm of control to one of connection.

In the Inner Work Studio, we actively dismantle the demand for relentless output. We build personalized self-care and celebration practices that honor our humanity first.

๐Ÿ”— Apply now and learn to develop a rhythm that honors your whole self: https://forms.gle/euYzayYkXxPrN2yo9

03/11/2026

If you are the caregiver of your organization or your household, who is holding space for you?

We expect mission-driven leaders, educators, and HR executives to be the emotional anchors of their communities. We expect them to navigate relational friction, manage systemic crises, and lead with empathy often while they are running on fumes. But you cannot out-meditate systemic burnout in isolation. Healing and growth flourish in relationships. Today, I am officially opening enrollment for the Inner Work Studio Community.

This is a 6-month, deeply transformative coaching container designed specifically for leaders who are ready to regulate their nervous systems, step out of toxic productivity, and learn to operationalize love in their lives and work.

We begin in April. If you are ready to do the "Me" work required to transform the "We," your seat is waiting.

๐Ÿ”— Click the link in the comments for more details and access the application: https://forms.gle/euYzayYkXxPrN2yo9

03/06/2026

I was recently accepted as an Executive Contributor for and am so honored to share my exclusive interview on the new era of human-centered leadership!๐Ÿ—ž๏ธโœจ

You cannot fix a fractured team with a new software solution or a casual "team building event." True organizational resilience requires dismantling the hidden systems of control that deplete us.

In my new feature, I dive deep into how to transform unconscious patterns into conscious compassion by making love a strategic discipline.

I break down:
- Why love and compassion must stop being treated as soft, after-hours sentiments and instead become the operational foundation of a healthy organization.
- How toxic productivity is a direct byproduct of patriarchal business structures built on extraction and control.
- The exact framework for transformation: how a leader regulating their own nervous system (the "Me") creates deep psychological safety (the "We") that transforms the entire organization (the "Collective").

Along with this, I will be launching the Inner Work Studio Cohort; a deeply transformative coaching container designed specifically for leaders who want to master self-regulation, overcome relational friction, and operationalize love in their lives and work. Stay Tuned for more information.

Step inside a revolutionary approach to business that heals the leader, repairs the team, and sustains the mission without sacrificing the people.

Comment "ARTICLE" for full access! ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿพ

With purpose and gratitude,

Your Curious Cultural Architect ๐ŸŒธ

"Before we talk to anyone else... I need to talk to you."The wait is over. Welcome to the inaugural episode of Talk to M...
02/28/2026

"Before we talk to anyone else... I need to talk to you."

The wait is over. Welcome to the inaugural episode of Talk to Me. ๐ŸŽ™๏ธ

For years, Iโ€™ve explored how relationships act as the blueprint for who we are as leaders. But before I turn the microphone over to our incredible guests this season, I wanted to sit down with you, just us, to share the "why" behind this show.

In this first episode, Iโ€™m peeling back the layers on the mission of Love Before ALL. Iโ€™m also taking the hot seat myself to answer the question Iโ€™ll be asking every guest: "Who taught you the most about relationships?"

(The answer might surprise you.)

This is the start of a season of warm, honest, and reflective conversations. Tune in monthly for a dose of healthy relating!

Real talk. Real people. Real love.

๐ŸŽง Listen to the Premiere Episode now and subscribe on Spotify or YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/

Comment "TUNED IN" if you're listening with us today!

"We have built the muscle ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿพ. Now we lift the weight ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿพ."Goodbye, February ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿพ. Thank you for the lessons in discipline. ...
02/26/2026

"We have built the muscle ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿพ. Now we lift the weight ๐Ÿ‹๐Ÿพ."

Goodbye, February ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿพ. Thank you for the lessons in discipline.
March, we are ready for you.
Tune in on Saturday for the first episode of the TALK TO ME: Conversations on Relationship Power Podcast.๐ŸŽ†

Double tap if you're ready for March.

๐Ÿ’—Love is a verb (and other lessons from February)"Clarity looks like admitting when we drifted. Care looks like the disc...
02/24/2026

๐Ÿ’—Love is a verb (and other lessons from February)

"Clarity looks like admitting when we drifted. Care looks like the discipline to return."

The February Care & Clarity update is live. We are reflecting on the rigor of love and preparing for the expansion of March.
That expansion includes the airing of the first episode of the TALK TO ME: Conversations on Relationship Power. Tune in on Saturday

Tap the link to read the full monthly wrap-up: www.lovebeforeall.com/blog

02/22/2026

"Love is a verb. And this month, it was conjugated."

February was spent building muscle. We interrupted patterns. We repaired ruptures. We chose love as a discipline over a mood.

This week, we are pausing to integrate. This Tuesday we are sharing the second edition of the Care & Clarity Update; a look back at the work we did and a look forward to where we are going.

Make sure you're on the list: https://forms.gle/KbWTTmBbsyUNfi1q8

"Trust is not built when everything goes right. Trust is built when things go wrong, and you care enough to make it righ...
02/19/2026

"Trust is not built when everything goes right. Trust is built when things go wrong, and you care enough to make it right."

Perfection is not the goal.
Repair is the goal.
Don't be afraid of the rupture.
Be rigorous about the repair.

Share this to your story to support someone who needs to hear this.

Impact > IntentThe myth: "If I didn't mean to hurt you, it shouldn't count." The truth: "The bruise doesn't care if the ...
02/17/2026

Impact > Intent

The myth: "If I didn't mean to hurt you, it shouldn't count."
The truth: "The bruise doesn't care if the blow was accidental."

This week on the blog, we break down why Impact always matters more than Intent in leadership. We are sharing the exact script to use when you need to clean up a mess.

Read the full script at www.lovebeforeall.com/blog

02/15/2026

"Stop saying 'I'm sorry IF you felt hurt.'"

New Episode: The Art of the Apology. โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน
"I'm sorry if..." is not an apology. It is a defense mechanism. In Episode 7, we strip away the excuses.

We are learning the LBA Repair Framework:
- State the Event.
- Own the Impact.
- Re-Commit to Change.

Trust is built in the repair.

Subscribe to our Youtube Channel for more episodes: https://www.youtube.com/

3 Signs You Are in an "Amygdala Hijack"- You are rehearsing a "winning argument" in your head.- Your empathy is at zero....
02/12/2026

3 Signs You Are in an "Amygdala Hijack"

- You are rehearsing a "winning argument" in your head.
- Your empathy is at zero.
- You feel an urgent need to "fix" or "respond" immediately.

If this is you... STOP. ๐Ÿ›‘

Give us a โœ‹๐Ÿพ in the comments if you've felt the hijack this week.
Tag a leader who needs this pause.

Stop the Spiral & Reclaiming Your Brain ๐Ÿง The Practice: The 90-Second Pause.- Notice the Tell: Tight chest? Hot face? Sho...
02/10/2026

Stop the Spiral & Reclaiming Your Brain ๐Ÿง 

The Practice: The 90-Second Pause.

- Notice the Tell: Tight chest? Hot face? Short of breath?
- The Pause: Do nothing for 90 seconds.
- The Shift: Ask, "Am I reacting to the past or responding to the present?"

Read the full breakdown on the blog today. This is the "internal work" of operationalizing love.

Inspired by neuroscientist Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor โ€œThe 90 Second Rule"
Read the full protocol on this weekโ€™s blog post: www.lovebeforeall.com

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