06/06/2026
The older I get, the less summers I’m willing to waste hiding.
I used to think I had to wait.
Wait until I lost the weight.
Wait until I looked better.
Wait until society treated me better.
Wait until more people liked me.
Wait until I felt worthy enough to be seen.
Then I realized...
That world doesn’t exist in my reality.
The people who love me, love me.
The opportunities meant for me, find me.
And my life isn’t on pause until I hit a certain number on a scale.
I’m fine as hell and on a journey. 💅🏽✨
Both can exist.
I can want a smaller waist and still wear the bikini.
I can have fitness goals and still take the pictures.
I can be transforming and still be THAT girl.
So this summer I’m choosing memories over insecurities.
Pictures over hiding.
Confidence over perfection.
Because who’s living this life?
Me or other people’s opinions?
And baby... it’s me.
Follow for more weight loss, confidence, manifestation, soft life, and becoming-her content. Purr.