06/20/2021
Happy Fatherโs Day!
This Fatherโs Day, I am on a different journey. It is the first Fatherโs Day that my father gets to spend in heaven.
I do not know yet all of the emotions that today will bring but what I do know is that (i) I feel blessed to have spent the first 40 years of my life receiving the love that only a father can give his daughter, (ii) I have a strong command of my paternal family history in Panamรก and Barbados because of the countless hours that you endured my never ending questions, (iii) I learned to be the epitome of grace under fire while simultaneously refusing to suffer fools because of you ๐คฃ, (iv) Iโm obsessed with music and dancing (especially soca and salsa) because celebrating Black culture was a significant part of your lifeโs work and (v) I am proud to be your daughter not because of everything you accomplished and how much you meant to our community but because of everything that you have taught me, the unconditional love you have given me and the person I am today could not have been without you.
So to the man whose face I stole (evidence provided in the baby pic), te amo siempre Daddy. Having you as a father was one of the greatest gifts I have ever received. Happy first Father's Day in heaven Daddy!